Suis Bitondo Bulambo Betty fille celibataire àgée de 19 ans,avec un enfant garçon repondant au nom de moîse.j'ai reçu cet enfant malheur au viol sexuel. surcez suis très étonant en voyant comment les femmes continue toujours à souffrir du jour au jour on ne ce pas si nous femmes sômmes devenue les animaux où quoi! ici en R.D.C spécialement au congo le violence sexuel sont devenue un jeux,il ya des papa âgée de 30ans qui viol une fille de 12ans,même dans de village il ya le millitaire armée qui viennent avec les armes our intimidé et enfin il viol les femmes et il terminent il fait introduit l'armes dans les vagin de la femmes,il ya les autres qui prend du sable et il me dedans.vraiment nous femmes sômmes trop discriminer,maltraiter ect... il ya le papa millitaire qui amenent les petite fille âgée de 12ans dans leur maison et commence a la traiter comme son esclave sexuel chaque jour en discussant si tu parle je te tue.nous femmes sommes imilier aujourd'hui. majorité des femmes on des enfant dont les papa inconue quand tu regarde cet enfant ce toujours les larmes qui descend aux yeux. surcez veuillez integré la protection de la femme et de la jeune fille, et reconnaitre les consideration de genre et les droits des femmes Merci.

English translation by community member amys

DISCRIMINATION AGAINST WOMEN

My name is Bitondo Bulambo Betty; I am a single woman aged 19 years old, with a young son called Moîse. I received this child as a result of rape.

I find it shocking to see how women still continue to suffer day after day – I don’t know if we women have become animals or what!

Here in the DRC, especially in the Congo, sexual violence has become a game. There are men aged 30 who rape a 12 year old girl. Even in the village there are armed soldiers who come with their arms and intimidate us and finally rape the women, and when they are done they put their weapons into the women’s vaginas. There are others who take sand and put it inside. We women really are discriminated against, abused, etc. …

There are military men who take little girls aged 12 into their house and use them as sex slaves every day, saying, “if you say anything I’ll kill you”. We women are humiliated nowadays. Most women have a child whose father they don’t know; and when you look at that child your eyes well up with tears. Please, we need integrated protection of women and young girls, and we need to recognise issues of gender and women’s rights.

Thank you.

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DISCRIMINATION AGAINST WOMEN

My name is Bitondo Bulambo Betty; I am a single woman aged 19 years old, with a young son called Moîse. I received this child as a result of rape.

I find it shocking to see how women still continue to suffer day after day – I don’t know if we women have become animals or what!

Here in the DRC, especially in the Congo, sexual violence has become a game. There are men aged 30 who rape a 12 year old girl. Even in the village there are armed soldiers who come with their arms and intimidate us and finally rape the women, and when they are done they put their weapons into the women’s vaginas. There are others who take sand and put it inside. We women really are discriminated against, abused, etc. …

There are military men who take little girls aged 12 into their house and use them as sex slaves every day, saying, “if you say anything I’ll kill you”. We women are humiliated nowadays. Most women have a child whose father they don’t know; and when you look at that child your eyes well up with tears. Please, we need integrated protection of women and young girls, and we need to recognise issues of gender and women’s rights.

Thank you.

Betty, merci beaucoup de partager ton histoire. Tu es incroyablement courageuse de parler si franchement, et quand plus des femmes parlent de ce type de chose, d’autre se sentiront le courage de parler aussi, et c’est en parlant qu’on peut commencer à lutter contre ce fléau.

Je ne comprends pas pourquoi certains hommes font ce genre de choses. Ils n’ont pas leur mère, des sœurs.. ? Il y a des gens vraiment dérangés dans le monde.

Je te souhaite tous mes meilleurs sentiments, pour toi et pour ton petit fils, qui n’a pas à souffrir pour les actions dégueulasses. S’il a une maman forte et intelligente qui lui parle de l’importance de respecter les femmes, il deviendra certainement un homme digne et bon, qui traitera les femmes avec du respect.

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