WHY DO MEN SEE FEMALES AS SEX TOOLS

Hmm a question that brings to mind a lot more question without a single answer.
It takes me back to Memory Lane in jss3...
In Nigeria we have what we call housing estate, a big building with lots of flats, in this kind of neighborhood every male is in uncle and every female is an aunt.
Getting to class one day and found my friend weeping cos crying is an understatement, I asked, cajoled, and consoled,until she finally opened up that...
A neighbour \"an uncle \" came to their flat with his friend,not long my friend's mother sent her on an errand to the uncle's flat on getting there, this uncle was not around but his friend was there.....
A young girl of jss1, a girl you are seeing for the first time....., I was in shock when she said that the man molested her! Now she hadn't told anyone since then. The evil of keeping silent. She had the courage to tell me after three (3) Long years of suffering in silence, she couldn't have voiced out, may be the man would have been dealt with, maybe she wouldn't have to go through the trauma and suffer alone, and she asked if could still tell her parent,as a young child I said no, it's not necessary to tell anyone again it's been 3 years, 1095 days, who would remember the guy again?
This shows how vulnerable girls can be!
Not to talk of the insensitivity of a mother, a child left your care just to run an errand in the next flat, and I kept wondering how long should that take? And how long does it take to be raped? Now a child that was raped, will she look OK on her return from the errand you sent her? What a mother!!! This is a wake up call..
GIRLS /FEMALE ARE NOT SEX TOOLS!!
MOTHERS BE SENSITIVE !!