Shop till you drop
  • Shop till you drop

Walking through the mall I spotted my friend Jackie in the distance. She had an ice cream in one hand and shopping bags in another. As I drew closer and she noticed me, we both burst out laughing – caught! See Jackie has a penchant for shopping, I know because I do too...but not as much as her. Often we berate ourselves for it but glad to say it is nowhere near an addiction nor do we ever buy needlessly, after all money does not grow on trees.

I do enjoy a lot of other things, and are even passionate about them. Actually my friends always remind me about the things I am good at and wonder why I do not do more. Write more, go dancing more often, engage more with like-minded people, and be heard. But it is not just about doing these things; it is also about recognising them in others, enjoying them with others, and encouraging others.

As a mother, wife, daughter, sister, employee, colleague and friend I sometimes struggle to cover all bases and unfortunately some sections suffer. And none suffers more than me.

This brings me to the conversation I had with Jackie. Perhaps needing to justify her fixation with clothes shopping, she pointed out that over the years she has realised that she had been putting off living. That sometimes one has to do things that make them happy, that keeps them balanced on the inside, while opening their minds. So as I was about to ask what that had to do with shopping, she added a few other things to the list before emphasising that she never actually spends that much, sometimes she just looks...right!

Sadly not all women can do what Jackie does – take time out. Women in Zimbabwe and the world over are stuck in a rut, struggling daily to get the basics for survival. And as if that were not enough they have to suffer the consequences of war, economic mismanagement, archaic and unfair cultural practices, sexual violence, lack of access to health and discrimination of all sorts.

For this reason, I have a dream. For a world where women do not have to suffer all these ills. For women to be assured of food, clean water, clothes on their backs and shelter over their heads. For women to be secure in their homes and streets, knowing that they can speak, move and associate freely and without fear.

I would like to be a Voices of our Future Correspondent so that I can learn from others how to put my innate skills to use and achieve my vision. That by learning to write and speak more purposefully, I can lend my voice, my mind and my hands to initiatives aimed at making the world better for women. That I can be better equipped to start my own movement, to find new means of whittling away at the old age barriers to freedom of expression and women empowerment. To ultimately learn and share from others like me, and be part of the change as we build a global movement. In the process I believe I can learn to take back the wisdom of feminine. I need for my friends to stop reminding me how good I am at doing certain things and reprimanding me for not doing more. For too long and too far I have drifted.

I know that not every woman will be able to go shopping on a whim like my friend Jackie. Not for clothes anyway. But, and this is the moral of Jackie's story, they can still shop. Shop to feed the mind and keep the soul alive and express it all in words, actions and all things visual. The currency - interest, ideas, energy and unity all rolled into one.

I would like them to be able to get the most out of life – whatever it takes to be safe, secure and content. So safe and secure, that they never have to worry about keeping body and soul intact. To pursue those things that will nourish the mind and soul so they can reach their full potential and more.

To be without limits as to what they want to do and what they can do. To just be.

I want us all to go shopping…everyday!

Take action! This post was submitted in response to Voices of Our Future Application: Your Vision.


I want us all to go shopping everyday too!!

This was lovely and anecdotal. I like the way you turned the experience into a lesson for us all.


Love, Ruthibelle

If you can imagine it, the world is like one big mall and we have the currency to buy what's on offer - the shelves are ladden. And we can also get others to see that they have the currency too.

Thanks Ruthi


Maggs, i really adore the way you caught my attention with this magic for every woman word "shopping" ;) And I must admit you touch so strong and important issues, basic, but how many of us think about there are people without enough of water or food?.. Is very important issue, and I support you totally and completely!

I often wonder at the way resources are acquired and distributed, the system is so unfair. If only the starting point was equality in access to basic needs, that would be ideal. But some people benefit from the want of others and that's why we'll probably be working to make this a little less terrible and hope to totally rid the world once and for all of poverty.


You know what I really like about the Zimbabwean sister of World Pulse? We show how awesome we are; how are lives aren't just doom and gloom; how we are real people with real lives beyond the stereotype of what Zimbabwe is.

Shopping is a good therapy. I mine, for some it's walking into Gucci or Ferragamo (coughcough*) while for others it's just about walking into TM and being able to get some sanitary pads for yourself; some roll-on, some cheap lip gloss. Shopping is empowering and we need more women who can walk tall and say, "Today I am treating myself", to whatever delight that may be.

I'd love to see how this concept could map out in real terms because I really like it. It's all about economic independence and empowerment. Love it! Thanks for getting the brain juices going!

from today i live out of my imagination i am more than my yesterday tomorrow i plant a new seed nothing that lies behind easy nothing that is ahead real my within is all i have today Napo Masheane

Living on three hours of sleep today :(

from today i live out of my imagination i am more than my yesterday tomorrow i plant a new seed nothing that lies behind easy nothing that is ahead real my within is all i have today Napo Masheane

You made me nostalgic today Maggs. Reading your post, I went back 6 years, when I was on my first job. The day we would get our salary, I would go out with this friend of mine whose husband was serving in the army and was always away. We would. The two of us would go, buy some food, bring it to my apartment and share that food, with a lot of girlie gossip. It was simple, and to many of our friends, quite stupid, yet it made us feel very happy. It was one day of the month when we had quality 'me time' and treated ourselves on the money we worked so hard for. Everyone should shop because its about celebrating your hard work and being with yourself.


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I agree with your assessment of yourself and what Fungai has been saying all along, you have a skill and I think I deserve to read more from you :-). I know the many aspects of your life demand a lot from you and take up much of your time but since you have made a decision to do this for yourself and shop some more on Pulsewire through VOF and 'feed the mind and soul' I hope you will be one of the correspondents so we can hear more of your beautiful thoughts.

Thank you for turning one of my vices into a statement of strength. Yes, I'm a shopper and have generally been apologetic about that. I love your spin on "shopping!" "Shop to feed the mind and keep the soul alive!" I love that turn of phrase. Your article uses humor to encourage women to "shop" for alternatives, solutions, and initiatives that can lead to a better world. I would be happy to go shopping with you (and Jackie) any day!