At age 18 I was told the time had come for me to go through Female Genital Mutilation (FGM). I didn’t want to. It was my mother and maternal grandmother’s idea: they’d also been responsible for the initiation of all of my female siblings. My mother cried and pleaded with me, begging me not to bring shame to my family. She told me it was not going to be hard because I was having it done in a hospital. I didn’t know it could be done in hospital, at the time this came as a shock.

My Dad, despite being a devout Muslim, was never in support of it. He always said he had never seen any part in the Quran that supports FGM. But according to our Sierra Leonean culture it is the role of the mother to ensure her female children are initiated into the “secret” Bondo society; a society solely responsible for FGM initiation.

Even though it is illegal in many countries, in Sierra Leone FGM is still carried out in hospitals for the middle and upper classes, usually by trained medical personnel. I was escorted by my siblings and some relatives to The Family Clinic on Wilkinson Road in Freetown. It is owned by a midwife based in the United States, where she does FGM for children of African parentage.

She comes to Freetown during the holiday period, where she performs the practice on children from the west (more affluent) side of Freetown. I was anaesthetised while the act was done. The midwife works with two assistant nurses. The wound is treated medically but the impact of FGM is the same as if performed in a non-clinical environment, where the majority of these procedures occur. I couldn’t walk normally for about two weeks. The sore was very painful. I found it excruciatingly painful to pass urine and it didn’t heal easily.

According to the United Nations Population Fund, FGM is practiced in about 28 African countries, including the Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC) and Tanzania. It has only been outlawed in 15 of these countries and the World Health Organization estimates that as many as 130 million girls and women have undergone the procedure. Although there are different types of FGM, in Sierra Leone it mostly means the removal of the clitoris and the labia minora.

As dreadful as it is, every level of Sierra Leonean society seems to have accepted FGM as a reality that we must live with. And it has become highly politicised, making it much more difficult for human rights activists. It is said more than 90% of Sierra Leonean women have undergone the procedure and despite international calls for criminalising it, many of my country’s politicians continue to secretly support it.

Another Sierra Leonean woman I know, Moijama Brima*, recently offered herself up to be initiated into the Bondo society at 24-years of age. Brima decided to undergo FGM because she wants to be a politician.

"I was laughed at. I was called names such as an unclean person, a non-initiate, a promiscuous woman,” she said. “Besides I realised that I will never become a successful female politician if I am not a member of the society. I must be a part of it to get the vote of the majority of traditional people.”

Even though politicians have expressed public commitment to stop the practice, they’ve given it their full support privately by paying huge amounts of donor money for the high costs associated with initiating young girls. They know it will pay dividends at the ballot box, especially in rural communities.

Brima’s initiation was paid for by the former Sierra Leone People’s Party government.

"Hundreds of us were paid for by the government through the member of parliament in that constituency. The activities were done in four districts of the country and this is done every year," said Brima.

In Sierra Leone, FGM is big business, with hundreds of girls initiated annually, especially during school holidays, normally between July and August, and around Christmas season.

However, reporting on it is not easy. I remember when a female journalist was sent telephone death threats for presenting a radio discussion programme about the harmful effects of the practice on the day of zero-tolerance to FGM in 2008. These threats were followed by mass protests from members of initiation associations across the country. Later, in 2009, several female journalists in eastern Sierra Leone were stripped naked and forced to walk through the streets because they had reported on the negative effects of FGM. While this was widely condemned by human rights activists, nothing significant was done to bring the perpetrators to book. Politicians greatly depend on members of the FGM society for success in elections.

I now live in the UK, where FGM is illegal. Despite that, many African families here seek traditional initiators to perform the act on their daughters when families find it difficult to send their children to Africa on the pretence of going for holiday.

The UK All Party Parliamentary Group on Population, Development and Reproductive Health considers FGM a fundamental human rights problem with adverse health and social impacts.

Indeed, girls and women must be given sole power to take all decisions regarding any physical action done on their bodies. There is also need for adequate sensitisation so girls can have options rather than being frightened or coaxed into the procedure, as I was.

While efforts in the UK are directed towards preventing the act in the UK, and providing counselling and medical support for women affected by it there, I think the UK Department for International Development and other international donors should do more to help eradicate the practice in countries where it is still legal and acceptable, countries where governments are quite possibly spending donor funds to pay for girls to undergo FGM.

A woman like Brima should be able to run for political office without having to undergo FGM; a woman like me should be able to fulfil her familial obligations without going under the knife. It seems wiser for more international efforts to be put toward prevention and education in Africa rather than spending heavy sums on these same things in developed countries.

Comment on this Post


Hello MS Kandeh and Welcome! I am sorry to not have noticed your prior entries, but wanted to be sure to respond here.

I would love to hear more about you and your passion for ending FGM, what occupies your days, and how you came to World Pulse, if you are comfortable doing so.

You may want to explore the WP site to connect with other women, see what current topics are being discussed, or find ways to take action. I have found the quickest way to enter into this community is to click on the "Voices Rising" link, which is under the "Community" tab near the top of the screen. From there you can easily access and read journal entries, and perhaps make a comment in reply. In order to add people to your community, click on the person's name. You will be taken to their profile, and can click on the 'add to my community' link under their photo. I believe you would find the new topic page for Gender Based Violence of interest:

Your journal entry especially captured my attention because I had just come across this article about FGM in Gambia, and how women are trying to seek asylum in the U.K. to escape the societal pressures to be cut or become a 'cutter'. Here is a link to that article: I would be interested in hearing what your perspective is since you live in the U.K.

Thank you for posting this article. We are glad you are here!

Let us Hope together- Michelle aka: Cali gal Listener Sister-Mentor @CaliGalMichelle Tweets by @CaliGalMich

Thanks for having me here Michele. I am a journalist from Sierra Leone. My take on FGM is that no girl should be forced to undergo the practice and in my native Sierra Leone FGM is widely practised forcefully on very young girls. I believe girls must be allowed to have a say on whatever procedure is done on their bodies. there must be an age of consent and at that age girls would decide whether they want the practice done on them or not. My reason for this is that there are people like my friend whom I featured in the article who willingly opted to have the cutting done on her for personal reasons. In my view that is fine. After all its her body and her decision is her decision. Again FGM in Sierra Leone is a big business and many of these initiators (soweis) are engaged in it as a business and ending the whole practice needs the creation of an alternative business for this mainly illiterates initiators. Some organizations have been engaging them in that aspect but there's a need for more education. It will surprise you to know that people in positions of authority still believe that FGM is one practice that Sierra Leone as a nation should uphold. Most of them do not come to the open but when you have a tete a tete with them they will give their support. This is sad because the victims are innocent girls and women. These are some of the issues that I feel very strongly about and thus my passion to end the practice. I was told about World Pulse by Danny Glenwright former Editor at Genderlink. i was making of contributions to genderlink opinion and commentary service and Danny though world Pulse could be another forum where I can meet other women who shares my ideas. It is indeed true that women running away from societal pressure to be an initiate or an initiator are seeking asylum here. Dr Comfort Momoh and the African Well Women Clinic has done a lot to help victims of the practice. Thanks again Me

MS Kandeh

This is such important work, and you are bringing this issue to the forefront with your heart-felt and well-written articles. Your passion and light shine through, and I am grateful to have met you here. Truly.

Let us Hope together- Michelle aka: Cali gal Listener Sister-Mentor @CaliGalMichelle Tweets by @CaliGalMich

I had wet eyes while reading ur story.just yesterday I was watching on bbc about fgm n I wasnt able 2 believe my eyes that they are really cutting so many milions n millions of girls in the name of tradition.I am so horrified with the thought of many innocent girls have been thru this and nobody raised their voice against it? I was reading about an organisation gomocotrap who ate fighting for it but sadly the african govt keeps banning their events and dont let them spread the awareness..I cant believe that u went thru it also.pls take vry gud care of ur heart n shes r wid u...I cant take the pain u went thru already but I hope god gives u all the happiness in future.are ur sisters still going thru same? Cantt u or all of us mentor n encourage them that its absolutely nonsense and not red at all 2 b a gud girl...there r millions of ways 2 b a gud girl except this one.pls let me know if I can be of any help I wud really personally call n tell them that they dnt have 2 go thru so much of pain..luv n hugs.....welcome to world pulse

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Stop FGM in the UK Now - e-petitions

Over 66,000 women in the UK have already undergone female genital mutilation (FGM) and more than 24,000 girls are at risk. FGM is a very British problem. Despite increased activities around FGM recently, it is not enough - we are still failing to stop the abuse.

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