Women c'mon!

just wondering,if women are really their own enemies.some things just do not add up...we all claim to be in human rights movements,pushing for equality and giving the girl child a break bla bla.At work,in our homes and society in general women seem to be at war with each other-is it natural that a women sees the other as a threat and not a healthy competitor?can we honestly help each other longterm without getting personal and petty?Feel me?