Use your anger wisely!



Emotions can drive you very quickly to go after all the things you want in life..if you use them the right way, but when it comes to anger, almost everyone understands anger's power to be destructive. People say things during anger that hurt other people's feelings, they can even act of their anger violently causing physical pain and injuries, now what is not well understood is that anger is not just a dysfunctional hormone in the human design, It is there for a reason and this reason is extremely valuable. This emotion is a natural healing energy that your body generates in response to injury along with sadness. When i was in high-school i hated math and physics which were the most essential modules in my field, so i got bad marks, i failed, i repeated my second year for the second time and i got fired from high school, I was only 19 years old, i had goals, i had plans that being fired wasn't part of. I was so damn disappointed, sad and hopeless and same goes for my parents...i had no chance but to accept my failure which was laterally impossible for a girl like me, a girl who has always dreamed of having a great career and a better life which doesn't include poorness. It was such a nightmare and especially when all my family heard about it..i was at my uncle's house, when his wife mockingly said: "you'd better start learning a new craft darling !". I remember it clearly, it was one of the most important moments in my life, cause i have felt a strong emotion, but this time it wasn't a feeling of sadness, it wasn't a feeling of disappointment, not even a feeling of embarrassment but it was a feeling of Anger..i felt so mad, i was so angry inside so i decided right then not only to pass my second year but to pass my baccalaureate exam and to be able to study at college the only module that i like which is English language and that's exactly what happened even-though i had to face a lot of struggles, one of them was to convince a headmaster of another high-school to accept me as a new regretted student who's totally ready to take advantage of this opportunity in all meanings of the word, but it happened, i succeeded, i could prove her wrong, i made it clear for her that i have much goals to achieve than staying home learning new crafts. but it happened because i got angry!


Now i realize that, wether the enemy is someone else telling you what you can or can't do or an emotion like fear causing you not to live the life you deserve... be angry!! you really can change your life when you decide what kind of person you want to be or what kind of life you want to live!


PS: If you have a goal, don't let anyone or any emotion tells you it isn't possible, get mad and in one instant you can regain control of your destiny.

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