Unconditional love

Women are definitly different in a way or another ..every woman is unique icon in womens world but when it comes to love ,care,giving and sacrifices they make every day they are almost the same..same in their wants so simple yet so complicated to be applied in reality..men play a great role in a females life since the day she is born ..girls try to gain their fathers attention and care and loves to be spoiled by them and that actually affects her self steam and how secure and satisfied she is .
When a girl is supported by her dad and got him around in every stage in her life she tend to be emotionly stable and rarely looking for other men love in any way. That leads to less relationships indeed.
Its not something we mean to do but we are naturally attracted to men and want to be loved by the man who realy means alot to us which makes us give and give and give all the time without even regreting or thinking in all aspects till we reach a point that we cant give any more..but what does a woman give exactly? What does a woman consider is so valuble and worth counted a given thing not taken for granted?this question is asked by most of men due to some occasions a woman expressed her love and said for example\" I gave you everything I can \"or when they have problems.
A woman considers every thing is giving even the little things ..a woman in a relationship for example (and that is just one side of our relations with men) ,gives her love expressed in words or actions ,every word she says she expect the man will appreciate and remembered ,also the way she looks,the time she spends with you or the time she thinks about you and expecting you doing the same ,the money is spent on things she bought to look great for you or spent on her hair do for example,every love word ,the way she listens to you and try to think how to empress you by her ideas ,activities and give her best to do that and again she expects you the man to appreciate and be grateful for this .
so if we put a counter in a womans head that counts valuable given things it would be endless!! If you want to keep up with a woman emotionaly it would be almoast for u as a man impossible to do that because you have to give more than her and that's just not in your DNA I dont mean to be unfair and just take a woman side but the thing is that the difference here is what a man consider given a woman takes for granted and what a woman consider given a man takes for granted then problems and fights arise due to one word*Expectaions *!!
yes when you expect something and this thing doesnt happen we get as women deeply disappointed and reconsider our choices and start to
Think if this relationship is realy working or is it only my imagination because I love man and was blinded by this till I gave everything and received less than that.
This feeling of unfairness leads to defensive attitude expressed in many forms for example ,a woman can ignore you talking and show that she doesnt care ,not answering your calls and try to avoid you, also some of the girls show aggressive behaviour and may be start calling names or even physically attack her man and she expect her man to understand why is she doing that ,in fact he doesnt get that he didnt in some occasions met her expectation and then she felt neglected naieve and stupid and now he is paying for it!!
When it comes to the solution of the problem..we have to do actuall efforts to understand each other psychology and how it works in order to know how to deal with each other ,firstly women have to stop looking at them selves as absolute givers so that the feeling of unfairness doesnt affect your relationship and start appreciating what you get even if it wad little things ,secondly men should try to ask themselves what does she expects me to do or react and try to do the best alternative available that makes her happy or satisfied.
I think if those policies didnt help finishing your problems at all it will reduce them a great deal.
And finally do what you feel you wanna do and dont expect anything just be happy and satisfied that you did it for yourself first because it made you happy and thats called unconditional love .

<3 <3 <3 Sara :-)