Once again, the time has come. A new year. A new International Women's Day celebration. This year, the theme for the International Women's Day is: Equality for women is progress for all. 

My recent article "Engaging boys and men in working for girls and women's rights will benefit everyone" clearly embraces the 2014  theme for the International Women's Day. In 2014, we need to put  "men"  in "women's" issues is essential, if we want to make a lasting difference for girls and women on the African continent and elsewhere. 

Let us first retrace the history of the International Women's Day. The first ever National Woman's Day was celebrated in the United States on 28 February 1909. The Socialist Party of America chose this day to honour the 1909 garment workers' strike in New York, where women protested against working conditions. 

In 1975, the United Nations chose March 8 as the International Women's Day. The following year, the U.N. initiated the Decade for Women. Since then, March 8, the International Women's Day, is a special day used to enlighten the challenges faced by girls and women across the globe and to celebrate their achievements.  

The truth is that behind an achievement made by a girl or woman, chances are, there is a supporting father, a brother, a male friend or significant other who has invested his time and/or his money so she can achieve her dreams and goals. This is probably why the U.N. has launched the campaign He for She to encourage the men, including supporters of W&A, to raise their voices for change.

U.N. Secretary-General Ban Ki-moon has appealed to men and boys around the world to be active participants because "where men and women have equal rights, societies prosper."

Whether one cares about girls and women's issues or not, the reality is that millions of them are silent victims. Regarding the question of gender-based violence alone, the statistics are alarming and called for action from every father, brother, male friend or relative: 

As many as 1 in 4 women experience physical or sexual violence during pregnancy. 

More than 100 millions girls are 'missing' due to prenatal sex selection. 

Women and girls make up 80 % of the estimated 800,000 people trafficked across national borders every year, with 79% of them trafficked for sexual exploitation.

Up to 7 in 10 women in the world report having experienced physical and/or sexual violence at some point in their lifetime. 

Over 60 millions girls worldwide are child brides, married before the age of 18. 

Approximately 100 to 140 millions girls and women in the world have experienced female genital mutilation or cutting. 

Approximately 250,000 to 500,000 girls and women were raped in the 1994 Rwandan genocide.

"I commend those of you [men and boys] who have spoken out and stand with women and girls, as you know women hold half the sky. We call on all men also, stand up and hold up half of their part of the sky," Phumzile Mlambo-Ngcuka, Under-Secretary General and Executive Director of U.N. women said.

 

Comments

It is important to remember through these details you have put together here, how widespread, long lasting and severe violence against women is. You have created a particularly good list, one that can be of use on so many occasions, saving us from reinventing it. It could also be used regularly by men and boys to speak out, and I agree with you wholeheartedly that there is so much good effect that men and boys can have, being encouraged to speak out toward respect for women and girls. Thanks for your work.

In sisterhood,

Tam

Dear Tam,

Thank you for your comment. Yes, we need to remember that everyone is actually affected by violence. As I focus to make sure girls and women have a better life, I purposely seek the support from boys and men when I've the opportunity. From my personal experience, I generally receive positive responses. I believe that this is probably one of the most effective ways to ensure a better future for girls and women: to encourage boys and men to participate in our activities. 

In Sisterhood,

Jessica

Jessica 

Founder/Fondatrice

Women & Africa International

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