CONFLICT OF FEELINGS
Apr 28, 2022
First story
Most of the girls have conflict of the feeling because they have been abuse by their fathers and their brothers,so like many survivors of childhood sexual abuse,don’t struggle with conflict feelings and don't have misplace of loyalty to your brothers or your father who are directly or indirectly assured you that they have special relationship,they were times that those families are kind to you.on the other hand don't felt helpless and repulsed with feelings of guilt and shame.feelings of intense dislike for perpetrator are not uncommon.However,i also heard girls says,"but i don't want to hate my father and push him out of my life."it is not easy to understand why a girls walked in thin line between blaming and rejecting her fathers and keep them in families.try to hang on to the fantasy that their caring loving fathers.