LOCKING YOURSELF

People love to care and treat themselves nicely. Buying  themselves all good things they can afford  , treating themselves to expensive vacations .Such practices are awesome as they restore inner peace as well as boosting one esteem.

Some individuals however, go to the extreme  to the extent that they become self locked  .They lock themselves and make it hard for others to access them. They become unapproachable by putting certain standards that people must meet in order to associate  with them .Such conditions might range from dress code, certain qualifications  and even physical appearance .

Self locked individuals make it hard for their colleagues at work ,fellow students  and relatives who lack "the set conditions" to associate with them .They scare away  people who might be in need who can only seek help from them .People are never free with self locked individuals  because  one is never sure if a self locked individual would accept their points of view ,decisions or even suggestions in certain topics.

It is therefore, a beautiful thing to always be considerate of others as we put conditions .W e must be conscious of other peoples  places in our lives.