CARE FOR EACH OTHER.#UNTILL ALL THESE MURDERS AND SUCIDES STOP.

Amonge
Posted April 15, 2019 from Kenya

WHAT IS CARE? 

To me care is serious attention or consideration  applied to doing something correctly to avoid damage and risk. And again care is provision of what is necessary for the health /welfare/maintenance and protection of someone or something. 

Have you imagined what care could do in the world, care brings about love and understanding, when we love then we listen and don't judge, and through care the world is a better place, solutions are found.

Negligence  kills the care in us, someone is depressed  then people tend to think they are seeking attention  through posting on social media, after they die fundraisers are  formed in aid of their send off, maibe the person died due to lack of fainance ,but only if you cared to help if they needed  then the deaths could reduce.when we care we love/like ,with love we appreciate  each other,we don't be little others, some people die out of isolation, they feel no love thus don't have people to talk to, that the only thing that rise in their mind is suicide  or murder due to rejection by the people they love.

SUCIDES and murder are little words but cause a lot of damage. We often tend to term it as attention seeking, we say they are weak, well some are, but some have a lot of pressure and very little outlet, because pressure comes in from all angles.

To the parents it's not too late to care for your children, however much you feel they are adults know that they need you 100%as part of them, call them more often, talk to them, know when they are stressed and when they are not. Listen  without judging understand them, and advise/guide them appropriately. Most of these youth deaths in the university  are caused due to lack of care. 

Then we should  also take care of ourselves. Don't ever want to be like anyone else, as in you want to live large when you cant,provoking you to accept money or funds from people who take advantage  of your situation,upon your rejection they murder you. You really don't know how their insides are.

Parents/teachers/friends and guardians, don't push these children, pupils, students and fellow adults  to be like everyone else.make them realise their worth. We can achieve all that if we care. 

I pray for Kenya, our youths, mostly our women, they are preys to these murders and suicides, let's care for each other. 

In honour of :-Ivy Wangechi who was murdered

                      -:Nancy chepkemboi who was stubbed by the boyfriend. 

                      -:sharon pregnant and murdered.

A woman who was stubbed to deathby the husband, the one who committed suicide after rejection  by baby dady many more of these people  who are suffering and have died. 

LETS CARE..........

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jlanghus
Apr 16
Apr 16

Hi Amonge,

Thanks for sharing your sad, but also inspiring post. I hear you. The world needs more love, and care, for sure. And, a lot less fear and hate. I think we'll get there. It starts with being kind and compassionate to first ourselves, then it's easier to do to others, and before you know it everyone would eventually feel love and compassion. What do you think?

Hope you're having a good day, dear.

Amonge
Apr 16
Apr 16

Hello jlanghus,
Am doing fine, it's true with love and care the world becomes a little heaven especially when we begin by loving and caring for ourselves, we don't hate or fear.
Thanks,
Amonge

jlanghus
Apr 17
Apr 17

Exactly. Let's hold this hope and vision:-)

Hope you feel better soon, dear.

Beth Lacey
Apr 17
Apr 17

Love and care always win the day

Amonge
3:41pm
3:41pm

Dear Beth
It's true that love and care win the day and makes the world a better place.

Corine Milano
Apr 17
Apr 17

Yes - care is key! Thank you for sharing your voice again, Amonge, and this powerful call for love and support.

Amonge
3:40pm
3:40pm

Hello Corine.
Thanks, yes care is the key !

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