WHAT IS CARE?
To me care is serious attention or consideration applied to doing something correctly to avoid damage and risk. And again care is provision of what is necessary for the health /welfare/maintenance and protection of someone or something.
Have you imagined what care could do in the world, care brings about love and understanding, when we love then we listen and don't judge, and through care the world is a better place, solutions are found.
Negligence kills the care in us, someone is depressed then people tend to think they are seeking attention through posting on social media, after they die fundraisers are formed in aid of their send off, maibe the person died due to lack of fainance ,but only if you cared to help if they needed then the deaths could reduce.when we care we love/like ,with love we appreciate each other,we don't be little others, some people die out of isolation, they feel no love thus don't have people to talk to, that the only thing that rise in their mind is suicide or murder due to rejection by the people they love.
SUCIDES and murder are little words but cause a lot of damage. We often tend to term it as attention seeking, we say they are weak, well some are, but some have a lot of pressure and very little outlet, because pressure comes in from all angles.
To the parents it's not too late to care for your children, however much you feel they are adults know that they need you 100%as part of them, call them more often, talk to them, know when they are stressed and when they are not. Listen without judging understand them, and advise/guide them appropriately. Most of these youth deaths in the university are caused due to lack of care.
Then we should also take care of ourselves. Don't ever want to be like anyone else, as in you want to live large when you cant,provoking you to accept money or funds from people who take advantage of your situation,upon your rejection they murder you. You really don't know how their insides are.
Parents/teachers/friends and guardians, don't push these children, pupils, students and fellow adults to be like everyone else.make them realise their worth. We can achieve all that if we care.
I pray for Kenya, our youths, mostly our women, they are preys to these murders and suicides, let's care for each other.
In honour of :-Ivy Wangechi who was murdered
-:Nancy chepkemboi who was stubbed by the boyfriend.
-:sharon pregnant and murdered.
A woman who was stubbed to deathby the husband, the one who committed suicide after rejection by baby dady many more of these people who are suffering and have died.