Dear girl the world is a big big world but your decision and plans makes it a better place or destroys you

Amonge
Posted September 14, 2019 from Kenya
Dear girl, the world is a big big world where our decision makes us or ruin us, just learn.
Dear girl, the world is a big big world where our decision makes us or ruin us, just learn. : That photo left me wondering what I was not doing back then that am doing today .decisions!!!!!! (1/1)

Dear little girl if you can learn, then learn from my story.Today I received a photo, at first I laughed because I couldn't believe that was me,time flies so first, but we decide which path we want to lead, we live based on our decision.

Your decision can either make you or destroy you. It makes you when you decide to follow the right path, and it destroys you when you keep on repeating  the same mistakes and don't know the value of change. 

When I keenly looked the photo  I learnt.I have completely changed, am a grown woman today making decisions  and not regretting. I just turned 25this year. 

That photo was taken back in 2016,my son was just months old.i had made a decision of not aborting but I had no plans on how I was going to live, feed my self and the baby(provide).that year was the worst  in my life, I could go without meals maibe a cup of porridge would  do just for a night, my son future was not secure not forgetting mine. That year the land lord closed the door for me, when I went back to my sisters house, she had not yet forgiven me on the pregnancy I could not stay there so I had to sleep at a friends  house, I still thank her to date. That year I did things am embarrassed  to say just to provide some basic needs. That year I almost died because my ceserrian wound never healed and after some months it reopened and puss was coming out. BUT WHEN 2016 WAS COMING TO AN END, I made a decision  to try and change, have plans, set goals and I NEEDED JESUS. 

Am not perfect, I still have a painful  something bothering me but am not the way I used to be, because I made plans out of my decision. I owned my mistakes and rectified some major ones, and I never left the community that judged me and laughed me, I stayed and  made my self better. They just had to learn from my mistakes. 

Dear girl, life is not just decisions,it also involve plans and better out come. The world is a big big place where our decision  makes us but without plans then our decisions are useless, plan well, be your change own your mistakes, rectify them and become better than yesterday. 

Nice day ladies, it's Amonge from Kenya. 

This story was submitted in response to GirlForce: Unscripted and Unstoppable.

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Anita Shrestha
Sep 15
Sep 15

Inspiring story

Amonge
Sep 15
Sep 15

Thank you so much.

Lisbeth
Sep 15
Sep 15

Dear Amonge,
Wow! Thanks for sharing this educative story of yours. I hope a lots of teenagers have learnt or will learn from your experience.
It's sad you have to go through the things you went through.

However, I guess your experience has molded you to this beautiful, better and strong woman now. Have a great weekend.
Regards

Amonge
Sep 15
Sep 15

Dear Lisbeth,
Thank you, yes people learn from experience, it make us or destroy us, am glad it made me change, thanks once more,
Nice Sunday you too.

Amonge
Sep 25
Sep 25

Dear Lisbeth,
Thank you, I hope too that the girls learn out of my experience and not go through what I went through,
Have a nice day
Brendah

ANJ ANA
Sep 15
Sep 15

Dear Amonge,
Feeling sorry for all your hardships but thank you for sharing and being so courageous. Definately the decisions that we made mould the life in its own way. We have to face it and have to pay off for our own decisions. I hope the experience will be an example for lots of teenagers girls.
best regards,
anjana

Amonge
Sep 25
Sep 25

Hello Anjana,
I hope your having a great day, I hope too these teenage girls learn from my mistakes and make the correct decision.
Thanks,
Brendah Amonge

Dear Amonge,

You are a strong, resilient woman. Your love for your child is stronger. You are a warrior. We are all imperfect, we all made mistakes we are not proud of, but when we take the lessons with us, then we become wiser. :) I also turned to Jesus when my life was a mess. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Keep living and loving!

Amonge
Sep 25
Sep 25

Dear Karen,
Thank you so much, am blessed and grateful I overcame the challenge through God.
Nice time and day

You're welcome, dear. Yes, you are blessed. In everything, give thanks. :) Amen, sis. Have a great day to you.

Tamarack Verrall
Sep 20
Sep 20

Dear Amonge,
What a beautiful story from your heart to girls who may be feeling lost. May your journey continue to bring you and your son growth and joy.

Amonge
Sep 25
Sep 25

Amen amen amen, thank you Tamarack .

Beth Lacey
Sep 24
Sep 24

Wise advice

Amonge
Sep 25
Sep 25

Dear Beth Lacey,
Thank you so much.