Nasimama na yeye#Domestic based violence must end!!!!!

Amonge
Posted November 23, 2019 from Kenya

She cried but who could  have saved her?those last minutes or hours she must have really suffered. She must have wanted to do what she could have done when she had the chance,(walking out of that relationship ).

It  was late, too late, for she had fallen in the trap. The man she had slept beside over years, at peace without  fear had turned into a monster, the man she had once called on phone to tell him she loved and missed had changed to a wolf, the man who he had children with  and prayed for toward having the best family was their source of death. what a cruel world we live in .

She did nothing wrong by following court oder to let the monster see his children. The children he once denied  weren't his UNTILL DNA proved him wrong, the children he abandoned  with their mum, the same children he tried poisoning. It pains me. 

If only she knew it was her last day and her angles. If only she knew she couldn't  have gone, she could have run to save herself and her kids. But she fell in that trap only to disappear  and be found dead, butchered  and buried in one grave together with her kids. 

What did she do wrong besides marrying a wrong man? Was it her fault or her destiny? I remain  crushed ,as the news states investigations is on going. I know it will end, the suspect will be released on bale or bond  and case closed. He is a major in the Army son of a woman who killed a woman plus the woman's kids, I cry for my country women. 

A woman is left without a daughter, she is left without  any option  but to bury her along her grand children, what a world we live in today

#if it never worked before, stop thinking it will if it's only you trying to work out things, you might be digging a deeper grave where your flesh will be buried. 

#run, if possible  fly from toxic relationship, stay away and keep yourself safe

#BE Financial able, provide for your self and your kids, learn to do everything and anything legal and genuine  to provide because  most of these men seems not to be ready to provide child  support, 

Lastly GOD DOESN'T FORGET A WOMAN'S CRY, PRAY! 

It's Amonge from Kenya, #NASIMAMA NA YEYE

This story was submitted in response to #IStandWithHer.

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efe
Nov 23, 2019
Nov 23, 2019

words of wisdom. practical advice

Amonge
Nov 23, 2019
Nov 23, 2019

Wisdom will kill me one of these days anyway if you follow the advise then you will save your life from early deaths Oooooh!

Ekitah
Nov 23, 2019
Nov 23, 2019

Hello dear!
Your writeup is special. Thanks for sharing this wonderful story on this platform form. You are blessed.

Amonge
Nov 24, 2019
Nov 24, 2019

Thank you so much sister for reading and understanding.
Let's stand with #her

Anita Shrestha
Nov 24, 2019
Nov 24, 2019

Dear Sis
Thank you for sharing

Amonge
Nov 25, 2019
Nov 25, 2019

Than you dear for reading

Zohra Elias
Nov 24, 2019
Nov 24, 2019

Hello sister,

Thank you for sharing your advices about gender based violence,

#istandwithher.

Amonge
Nov 24, 2019
Nov 24, 2019

Hello sister,
Thank you for reading ,understanding and I believe when we join hands we stand with many women who face violence

Zohra Elias
Nov 24, 2019
Nov 24, 2019

Couldn’t agree more sister,
You are so welcome dear !

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Nov 24, 2019
Nov 24, 2019

Hello, Amonge,

This is such a tragic story. May her soul rest in peace, and may justice be served! Thank you for bringing this story to our attention and for participating in the call for stories for the #IStandWithHer campaign.

Amonge
Nov 25, 2019
Nov 25, 2019

Hello Karen,
May her soul rest in peace,
Am grateful that through worldpulse, I get the chance to Adress my stories to the world

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Nov 26, 2019
Nov 26, 2019

Yes, dear. We are happy that you are speaking up on this platform, too. Have a great day!

lizzymark
Nov 25, 2019
Nov 25, 2019

Thanks dear,your words are true, and I pray the change comes quickly for the safety and freedom of many.

Amonge
Nov 25, 2019
Nov 25, 2019

Hello,
Thank you too, that's my prayer too, UNTILL gender based violence stops.

Lisbeth
Nov 26, 2019
Nov 26, 2019

Dear Amonge,
Thanks for sharing your wonderful strategy for #istandwither. Your three strategies
#if
#run
#be
We shall try and applied.
Thanks

Amonge
Nov 26, 2019
Nov 26, 2019

Dear Lisbeth,
Thanks for reading, yes it's applicable, it frees most of us women from toxic relationship.
Thank you.

Lisbeth
Nov 28, 2019
Nov 28, 2019

You are welcome dear.
Regards :-)