Iron cut iron

Anita Shrestha
Posted November 30, 2019 from Nepal

Dear  World Pulse Sister

Last year I had done job in one organization and passed my four years to work did there. Therefore, I thought to bring one sister who said that she was unemployed. Therefore, I requested to my senior madam to bring her. My senior Madam also agreed to bring her. Therefore, I called her in office and provided job to her. 

I was so happy to able to provide to job her. And thought to team work in there. Previously also, I was done work in team. Therefore, I was so happy to do work on team. Therefore, it had great chance to work in team. After passing three months, I was so surprised to different behavious shown by her and my senior Madam. My senior Madam was never angry with me passing four years, but she said what about me then she became so furious with me and scold every day to me.  Gradually, our team has quarreled to each other due to her back biting  nature. Therefore, I thought I must now leave this office because I should not live here for making someone burden. Therefore, I left that office giving resignation. After 2-3 months all old team became get out due to that sister. And that sister brought her own team in office. 

But I am happy to make that environment from that sister. If I did not leave that office, I could not finish PhD. Furthermore, after leaving that office, I became about six month without job. But when I completed my PhD then I am continuing getting research work as consultant. Up to this seven months, I completed three research work of famous companies. Therefore, today, I thought, it passed just one year to leave that office, but I am in the progressing way. Sothat , I thanked to that sister who created unfavorable environment in old office. Who gave chance to struggle in each and every steps of life.

Therefore, sometime, person whom we supported also misbehaves us but with in that behave opportunities also hide. Therefore, thank you to that sister and senior Madam.

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Tarke Edith
Dec 01, 2019
Dec 01, 2019

Hello Anita
You are wounderfull .you have done a great job to that sister dear .
Keep on and thanks for sharing .

Anita Shrestha
Dec 01, 2019
Dec 01, 2019

Thank you dear for making feedback

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 01, 2019
Dec 01, 2019

Hello, dear sister Anita,

Backbiting and gossip really kill relationships. I still commend you for looking at the brighter side. Congratulations on your PhD and your work as a consultant. It now gives you control of you time.

How wa your application for post-doctorate studies, dear?

Anita Shrestha
Dec 01, 2019
Dec 01, 2019

Post doc, in first round exam, second round exam passed. Now third round is ongoing,

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 03, 2019
Dec 03, 2019

Wow! Congrats, dear sister. Hoping for the best!

Jill Langhus
Dec 02, 2019
Dec 02, 2019

Hi Anita,

Thanks for sharing. That's a great way of looking at that horrible situation. It's terrible when sisters treat each other like that and especially after you'd helped her. Does it make you reluctant to help someone out again, especially if an opportunity like that presented itself again?

XX

Anita Shrestha
Dec 03, 2019
Dec 03, 2019

Dear Sis
I want to always help everybody who showed me even bad behavior.Therefore, I am helping to other.

Jill Langhus
Dec 04, 2019
Dec 04, 2019

Hello Anita:-)

That's very amazing, and altruistic of you! I'm always really inspired by people who are able to rise above other people's abominable behavior. Great job!

ANJ ANA
Dec 09, 2019
Dec 09, 2019

Dear Anita jee,
Thank you for sharing your experience. You are absolutely right, that the changes make the people's progress. We definitely have to leave our one step behind for stepping another pace ahead. I am happy that you got more opportunities after you come out from the comfort zone and dared to step ahead. I wish you the very best for your future endeavour.
I love your gratitute and positivity towards the sisters behind you.
Love and regards,
anjana

Anita Shrestha
Dec 10, 2019
Dec 10, 2019

Dear Anjana Jee
Thank you very much for always encouraging me.
Best of luck