My friend's story

Anita Shrestha
Posted January 14, 2020 from Nepal

My friend was married by one foreign. After 16 years that foreign guy return back to his country to leave her alone in Nepal here. She had two children above 10 years. That foreign guy took both that children to him. And my friend return back to her village to load all goods of rent from Kathmandu. But she didnot say that she had done divorce. And she is speechless. I think they were done divorce. That foreign guy had project in Nepal. And He married her in the past for just project sustain.  Therefore, finally that guy said to her '' Please leave me, children don't need mother after getting 10 years age cross". I said to my friend to take some money after divorcing but she didnot share anythings. But her face shows that she is in more depressing. Her intimate friends and me want to hear her story . But she didnot tell anythings and went to her village by loading all goods from Kathamandu.

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Hello, Anita,

This is a depressing situation indeed. Is it possible to invite this friend to World Pulse so she can share her story with us and we can altogether encourage her?

She doesn't need to feel that she is all alone in this journey. I hope she will find healing.

Anita Shrestha
Jan 14
Jan 14

Ok, I will tell her,but she is in very village area. Where no electricity and internet. She could conduct internet after coming to Kathmandu only.

Oh I see. That is one challenge. Thanks for being a good friend to her. Keep it up.

Felicitas Wung
Jan 14
Jan 14

Helo Anita!
Thanks for sha

Felicitas Wung
Jan 14
Jan 14

Helo Anita!
Thanks for sharing. Please encourage that friend of yours not to feel so bad.

Lisbeth
Jan 14
Jan 14

Wow! This so bad! This is marrying your enemy" they say". He is a wicked soul. He did everything deliberately.
Encourage your friend to go for counseling, so she might not get depressed and about divide.
Also advised her to join world pulse. Here she will get encourage daily.
Sorry about your friend :-(. It's unfortunate
You all take care.
Regards

Anita Shrestha
Jan 14
Jan 14

Actually that foreign guy took all benefits from her and finally he left her.

Lisbeth
Jan 15
Jan 15

Oh no, plus the kids :-(.
Very sad. Always encourage her, she might get depressed. Not easy to lose children's :-(. Especially, the hard way.

Jill Langhus
Jan 15
Jan 15

Hi Anita,

Oh, dear:-( This poor woman. I hope she is able to join World Pulse, too. I hope we can help her. Are you saying that he took their children with them, too? Eeek. I'm glad you are helping her, dear.

Anita Shrestha
Jan 15
Jan 15

Yes, her husband went to foreign country with taking son and daughter. And she returned back to village but I am counseling her to take divorce

Jill Langhus
Jan 15
Jan 15

Oh, no:-( Yes, I'm glad that you are! Please keep us posted on her situation, dear. I wish you, and her, luck.

Anita Shrestha
Jan 15
Jan 15

ok

Jill Langhus
Jan 15
Jan 15

:-)

lizzymark
Jan 15
Jan 15

How sad for that friend, but keep encouraging her please. Wasn't there any court agreement?