Introducing myself and my journal: Devastated

Averyv12
Posted November 17, 2014 from Canada

About Me:I was married for 22 years when my husband stated communicted and seeing his ex wife from 35 years ago, this was totally unexpected and I have been crying for 2 years, can anyone give me some much needed advice? thanks to all who reply Mary

My Passions:I don't have any anymore

My Challenges:to not isolate myself

My Vision for the Future:to be happy

My Areas of Expertise:I am a retired travel agent

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Della Rae
Nov 17, 2014
Nov 17, 2014

Hello Mary,

My heart and soul are with you. Believe me when I tell you that it will get better. Just keep choosing every single day to find something to be grateful for. Everyday practice. Wake up and be thankful for your breath. If you can't find something new this day, think about something from yesterday and allow that to hold your attention.

Your heart will heal.

In solidarity,

Averyv12
Nov 18, 2014
Nov 18, 2014

thank you for your reply, I want to believe it will get better, and I am grateful for the breath I take and pray each day will get better. thank you Mary

Averyv12
Nov 18, 2014
Nov 18, 2014

Thank you so much for your caring, people are beginning to avoid me like the plaque because I cry so much, how long will this go on. I don't know how to start a new life at 72, my ex is marrying the woman that broke up our marriage so he just moves on.

Mauwa Brigitte
Jan 29, 2015
Jan 29, 2015

Hello! Welcome to the World community pulse, you appreciate other women online about the changing world with changing technology that changes from day to day. Be tune will not be disappointed.

 
 
 
Mauwa Brigitte
Jan 29, 2015
Jan 29, 2015
 
 
 

 Hello! I read your newspaper is really touching but the only comforter; Crist is Jesus who never leaves décevrantes in life because he alone in the last word on the person's life that wants to cling to him. Are you ready to receive it so it gives you a lasting peace?

Averyv12
Mar 29, 2015
Mar 29, 2015

Yes

Tamarack Verrall
Mar 29, 2015
Mar 29, 2015

Dear Avery,

I hope that being in touch with WorldPulse women has given you some hope and strength. I hope too that time has begun to heal wounds. I will be in touch through private message to connect on possible services in Canada in your area.

With love in Sisterhood,

Tamarack

Averyv12
Mar 29, 2015
Mar 29, 2015

time hasn't seemed to help especially when I hear from him wanting a divorce in order to marry his woman....Please keep in touch as it keeps the lines open for me,  thank you all very much

Mary

Netsai Nomhle
Apr 03, 2015
Apr 03, 2015

Letting go is a process. Its dying to the thing that you thought was your very existance.  Yet, here you are, still living.  Each moment will come with challenges, embrace it. Can we love someone not worth loving, certainly.  Are you deserving to be loved whole heartedly? absolutely.  He chose to leave you, knowing he was hurting you. Love is kind, was he kind? If loving him makes you feel better, then continue, just by reading your mail, it doesn't? Love him if you must, but live, immense in loving yourself ,truly getting to know who you are?  You are not defined by someone else's love.  Sharing your brokeness, like you did with us, is the first step to  healing.  You are on your way to a brand new chapter of your life..

Averyv12
Apr 04, 2015
Apr 04, 2015

thank you Netsai,  your post was very inspiring.  I have been trying to find out who I am,  as I have always been a mother/grandmother and wife.  this is my challenge...who am I.  How can I mourn something that hurt me so deeply,  I am on my journey....thank you so much for your words.

Mary