THE STRENGHT OF A WOMAN

Chidimma
Posted March 8, 2021 from Nigeria

Women face a lot of challenges from childhood to adulthood to motherhood, ranging from discrimination, rejection, gender inequality, sexual abuse, heartbreak, disappointments, childbirth, trauma, separation, domestic violence, the least is endless.

it is true that women are known or termed to be a "weaker vessel" that should be handled with care but it will interest you to know that that in this weak vessel, there's a forklift; a forklift is an equipment use to move and lift fragile product.

so no matter the weakness of a woman, she's got strength in her to move and lift herself. Every woman including you has gotten this ability, this means no matter the situation you already have the strength to carry on right inside of you but it is left to you to explore.

I have gone through denial, betrayal, hatred, disappointment, heartbreak but l made use of the forklift inside of me and helped me to remain strong and turned my challenges into opportunities and in amazement an image of God made up of nine ribs couldn't help but call me, made of seven ribs, made from a man.

You too can do this for you already have the strength to keep going right inside of you. its not the situation that matters but your attitude towards it, nothing happens without a reason and there's a season for everything under the heaven.

in every struggle there's strength to survive. Never let anything put you on the ground, its okay if you're already on the ground,  that's not where you belong, get up!!!

Yes you can, you've got the power, there's a forklift in you, you are stronger than you could ever imagine. The vessel might be weak but the content is not.

Arise!!! oh, woman and shine.

HAPPY INTERNATIONAL WOMEN'S DAY

 

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Phinnie
Mar 08
Mar 08

Chidimma--Happy International Women's Day to you! I love your powerful metaphor of each of us having a forklift within us that can lift us up! With that internal forklift and the support of one another, so much is possible! Thank-you for your positive message!

Chidimma
Mar 09
Mar 09

Thanks Dear Phinnie for reading.
With the support of you and l the sky is our starting point.
Hugs.
chidimma

Phinnie
Mar 09
Mar 09

Your positive attitude is contagious Chidimma!

JoOak
Mar 08
Mar 08

" Nothing happens without a reason and there is a reason for everything under the heaven". I love this !

Thanks sister , truly our attitude towards any situation mattters .
As long as we are living and breathing, we will always face challenges but we should always maintain a positive outlook to life.

Thanks for this inspiring write up dear sister .

Happy international women's day !

Love ,
Jo'

Chidimma
Mar 09
Mar 09

Hi Dear Jooak, Trust you and your family is doing well.
Thanks for reading.
With Love,
Chidimma.

Mariama Kallon
Mar 08
Mar 08

Thanks so much for sharing this powerful story.
#ChooseToChallenge.
All women voice most be heard.

Chidimma
Mar 09
Mar 09

Hello Dear Mariama, Hope your doing great.
Yes, our voice must be heard loud and clear.
Thanks for reading
In Sisterly love
Chidimma.

Nini Mappo
Mar 08
Mar 08

Chidimma, I love the simple but deep forklift analogy bestest!!! Thank you for your encouragement :) I hope that you had a sparkly women's day.

Chidimma
Mar 09
Mar 09

Thanks Dear Nini, am learning from you (Laugh).
Thanks for reading.
with Love & Hugs.
chidimma.

Mauwa Brigitte
Mar 09
Mar 09

Hi Chidmma!
Thank you for your story, we cannot remain in fragility without leaving this state to climb into the space of technology that will change our attitudes in the world, the woman must break the silence by denouncing it and move forward for her value despite discrimination.

Chidimma
Mar 09
Mar 09

Hi Dear Mauwa, Hope your doing fine.
Yes, l agree with you, we must break our silence and move forward.
Thanks for reading.
With Love,
Chidimma.
#Choosetochallenge.

Mauwa Brigitte
Mar 22
Mar 22

Hello!
Thank you so much.

Beth Lacey
Mar 09
Mar 09

Yes, we are stronger than we imagine- and together we are unstoppable!

rebecca.tang
Mar 09
Mar 09

Thank you for sharing. Being a woman, it is really challenging everyday. We struggle among multiple roles everyday : mother, wife, daughter and we have our own career too. On the other hand, we have our own emotion and we have to face the emotions of others as the same time. It is not easy indeed.
Be strong and stay safe! May Almighty God bless you and your family!

Chidimma
Apr 15
Apr 15

Thanks for reading.
with love.
chidimma

NYEMU GLADYS EGO
Mar 11
Mar 11

That is true