Stop killing women and girl child

Dikarabo Phakane
Posted June 12, 2020 from South Africa

I wake up some day and go to the mirror ,and ask myself that am I that bad,to not deserve to live in this world?,am I too horrible that a human like me when he sees me,can kill me without having any kind of a feeling for me?Did I commit a very huge sin that I can't be forgiven or am am I a sin myself..?Why do I have to live in fear just because I am a girl child,why do I not deserve the love of a father because I am a daughter,why do I have to be not a woman enough because I gave birth to a girl child,it's not us that chose to be females,it's not us who decides the gender of out children, Hence it's because of us that you are living.I plead to all men to forgive us and to please stop abusing and killing us.

Comments 10

Log in or register to post comments
Jill Langhus
Jun 12
Jun 12

Hi Dikarabo,

Welcome to World Pulse! Oh, dear:-( This is sad, dear. Why do you feel undeserving, and unforgivable? You are not. We need to foster more peace and security in our cultures.

Please let us know what's going on, and how we can help you. There are quite a few sisters in South Africa that may be able to help you.

Hope you're safe and well, dear.

XX

Dikarabo Phakane
Jun 13
Jun 13

Thank you dear and I'm doing just fine,I'm just sadden by the deaths of most girls of my age after being raped.

Jill Langhus
Jun 15
Jun 15

You're welcome. Glad to hear it:-)

Yes, that is sad. I hope it improved soon.

maeann
Jun 12
Jun 12

Hi Dikarabo, welcome to World Pulse. You are an amazing girl. Be strong. There are wonderful things ahead of you. Seek help.

Dikarabo Phakane
Jun 13
Jun 13

Thank you dear♥️♥️♥️

Hello, Dikarabo,

Welcome to World Pulse! What a joy to know a new voice from South Africa is rising up.

We stand with you, sister. Please let us know more what's going on. I hope you are safe. Your questions are valid. It's not a sin to be born a woman. Stand strong, sister. We are now behind you. Please keep sharing your stories here.

Welcome again to our growing sisterhood!

Dikarabo Phakane
Jun 13
Jun 13

Thank you my love♥️♥️♥️

You're welcome, dear. I would like to invite you to join the Encourager Team. Please visit this link for more info: https://www.worldpulse.com/world-pulse-leaders/encouragers

Chi8629
Jun 12
Jun 12

Thank you for sharing.

Dikarabo Phakane
Jun 13
Jun 13

♥️♥️♥️