The important lesson I had as a girl child.

When I look back at my younger me,when I look back at the decisions I made,i look down at myself and I regret.I started to be in love at the age of 15 doing grade10 because i thought it was a good thing to do as everyone was doing,and before I could say "I love you too" to the proposing guy I would ask my friend,and guess what she said "why not my friend" I thought I was not gonna love him at first,until I could hear a classmate talking about him,I thought I was not gonna have sex with him until I heard a classmate of mine saying "If you do not do it,he will leave you and we will take him".This has gone through my mind and December 2016 I decided that I will approach him myself n tell him I am ready because I was so in love with him.April 2017 I received a message on Facebook from a girl telling me she is pregnant with the very same guy I'm in love with,it brought a lot of pain to me.I slimmed because he was not only a boyfriend to me,I had no other friends except for him,I told the guy that I I will support him,n remember I'm still 17years.You know what happened?the guy told me that for me to be with him I have to respect his baby mama n not always call him.I was so in pain,and always crying to God to heal me.But I today say I do not regret everything,I am so proud of me because I dealt with the pain alone or with God and it did not change me into being a bad person.It was a lesson to me n my life,and I'm so glad I came across such because I'm wiser today than I was yersteday.I know I'm still young in age but I have grown in my mind.To my lovely sisters out there if you have been hurt, know that it's not the end of the world.Remember every person has or had an important role in your life, good people give you memories and bad people give you lessons.