Dream Another Dream

duth.kimsru
Posted February 9, 2011 from Cambodia

My relatives usually said that in the future I will become a farmer for sure simply because I have two black spots lying on my right shoulder. The spots can be translated that I will use my shoulder to carry water for agricultural purposes. The saying implies that I don’t need high education because anyhow I will become a farmer. I was very disappointed because I wanted to be an English teacher, not a farmer. To pursue my dream I studied English with an English teacher in a Buddhist temple in my village.

As my village school has only up to grade six, it was disadvantaged for me to pursue higher education. Fortunately, my family moved to Phnom Penh, the capital city of Cambodia where there are many private English schools. It was a lot more painful for me because my family could not afford. Hence, I studied English with some organizations where they provide free English lessons.

After a few years, my mother had some money to afford my part time English class where I could study proper English with a good teacher. It was a little expensive for me, but I have improved a lot within a short time. Then I applied for a scholarship in a newly international university “Asian University for Women”. One of the reasons that I applied for the scholarship was all the things about the university was written in perfect English which most of the words require me to check dictionary in order to get a sense what it means.

More than lucky, I got a phone call from my country coordinator telling me in English that I was selected for the scholarship. At that time I was in class, but I was so excited with the news so I ran home telling my mother, “I was selected and I am going to study abroad with many students from all over Asia. Especially, I will study in English from high standard university.”

My future dream will no longer unreachable, instead it gives me a chance to have a bigger dream. And that dream is to go back to Cambodia and help the government to improve our education system.

My Story: Miracles

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Sarvina Kang
Feb 09, 2011
Feb 09, 2011

Hi Kimsru,

Congrats for your achievement! I am happy for you, you will be a good rolde model for our country. I am sure you will bring a change to hometown. Your piece have touched my heart and I feel that you will become a shiny star for all of us Cambodian. Keep up your good work, you will get what you want in the future. I wish you all the best...!

Love, Sarvina

duth.kimsru
Feb 10, 2011
Feb 10, 2011

Hi Sarvina,

It is hard for me to bring a change, but together we will bring change. I always encourage my friends through online network as well as face to face to be the strong force for the future of Cambodia. It is very inspiring to get support from you and some of my other friends. I strongly believe in networking and hight commitment.

Warmth,

Raga Dawood
Feb 09, 2011
Feb 09, 2011

Dear you are successful at the entrance of your story where your relatives mentioned that you predict your future based on the fairy tale legacy .. I like your insistence on achieving your dream and your efforts in the creation of covalent and non-reality of you to be a farmer cultivate salute you ... and you Tnadili for science and learning ... certainly Like you are live up by women

duth.kimsru
Feb 10, 2011
Feb 10, 2011

Dear sister,

I think it is time for elder to change their perspectives on how the next generation is going to live. Because of the achievement that I have gone through most of my relatives are more opened to listen to their children and grand children. I really want to hear this kind of story for every corner of the world. Hopefully in the future, children will be shaped in differently from what that our mother and grandmother were raised up.

Warmth,

ccontreras
Feb 14, 2011
Feb 14, 2011

Dear Kimsru, I loved reading your story, it really warmed my heart. I am very proud of you for sticking up for your dream and trying your hardest to accomplish it. And I know this is just the beginning of a long and amazing journey for you! So I hope you will keep us informed of your progress while at the University! I can't wait to hear about your experiences! Cynthia

Linda M. Ando
Feb 14, 2011
Feb 14, 2011

Dear Kimsru,

Hello! Thank you for sharing your story. You are an inspiration to so many young girls & boys who dream to be more than what others may think possible for them. It is so important to BELIEVE in the impossible as POSSIBLE.

As your relatives predicted, you will be a farmer but what kind of farmer? What will you grow? You are a Farmer who plants seeds of hope, knowledge and takes good care to nurture them to grow their mind, spirit and future.

Your hard work, dedication and passion to study English with the vision to empower Khmer youth to be citizens of the world is admirable and achievable. Please keep up the good work and believe in your dream.

I am touched to know that you and your Khmer sister, Sarvina are working hard to educate and inspire Khmer girls and boys to realize their dreams.

Thank you!

With gratitude and respect,

Linda Ando

Ayobami Olusola
Feb 16, 2011
Feb 16, 2011

I truly admire you faith in yourself, you determination to dream another dream and your refusal to allow society's expectations to tie you down. You are the miracle