child abuse psychology

Child abuse and its cure!

Child abuse can lead to mislead adulthood, children who might grow up to be drug addicts, There could be chances that they loose their temper quite easily, Self esteem might get damaged or there could be a difficulty in bonding with others. Do you think there is a way out, if it happened to you? Sure there is. Psychologists everywhere say this.

You can consult lawyers these days who are there with some social causes like children for instance. Take for example the work done by Advocate Namrata Mishra, who has been fighting since long for children. Children have been brought to her and other lawyers in brutal condition, they are physically abused, they are malnutritioned, their voices have not been listened to, they have been abandoned and they have been treated in a bad way in every other way children can be treated. What she reported to us are scores of cases and the way she handled these children who were tortured to the hilt. People who noticed her for her work, came and asked her:’What has been the worst case that you have handled till date?’The answer she says is not easy. But the answer has always remained in her thoughts. Her answer is that of all the kinds of child abuses handled by her emotional ones are the most difficult and mandatorily handled ones Upon being asked why, she says it's the cruelest way the child has been abused likewise the pain is long lasting.

This form of abuse might have its roots in the subconscious of a person. Designed to make child lose his esteem, feeling ill about himself, hating his very existence, thinking himself unworthy of anything and everything that comes to him, emotional abuse kills him several times. Deliberately done it could be like a gunshot, off and here it goes “ you are lean thin, these pants won’t fit you.”

In short, it could become a randomly fired bomb explosion. Deliberate tidbits of humiliation like :

‘you are not as clever as your brother were at this stage in the school’.

It is important to note that the resolution to such issues as advised by clinical psychologists can be only one :learn to forgive yourselves. By thinking over and over again don’t be rude to yourselves. While the entire science of psychiatry does prove that offenders need to take medicine to help their criminal psychology to come to a rest while keeping them healthy, the victims are also put on medicine and total care. Once the child who is abused learns to forget

past and move on ahead in life, he discovers a whole new world where people are nice to him, love and care for him, share with him, the best starts to happen. So, jot it down in your own words,

’Life won’t always run smooth,

joys won’t always last long,

tears of agony won’t always melt into a song,

but deep in your heart,

you’ve got a message to store,

you shouldn't be afraid of anything anymore.’ Or the spring would come for a second time. Yes!