I instilled fear unknowingly.

Following my few posts I have made here, one can make a right guess and tell who I am. Yes, I am a survivor. Survivor of a gender based violence.

Working tirelessly to rescue or make a change to someone's life if not the whole nation. Allow me to take you back a little bit. I come from a very large family. Meaning, I have siblings who were born after me. My sisters, cousins and nieces. Many are witnesses of what a went through during my time in marriage. Am afraid, disappointed and sad to know that some still live in fear. 

I instilled fear to them unknowingly. Some view marriage as a death sentence. Men as predators. How now? Not all men are bad. Not all are evil. Some are God sent. I have a very tough assignment. But I still believe in my counselling. I still believe I can make lemonade out of my lemons and make people enjoy a sip.