Face your fears

iNguti
Posted February 20, 2020 from Cameroon

My experience 

 Fear has been the most negative thoughts in our minds from child hood it has been about fear , fear of putting to birth before getting married, fear of what will people take me for .fear of not getting married to the man your parents want , may be a man from the same village with you . Fear of just taking that risk and do something brave no matter the out come . At the end of the day it’s about you . 

 

Everyone has different fears, but everyone has fear. Some of us fear driving a car , Some of us fear heights. Some of us fear failure. All of us fear something, but just know that your life will improve if you face your fear. 

    Too often our fears prevent us from living the lives that we want to lead. Whether it’s a fear of heights or a fear of commitment, our fears can cause us to miss out. Make a plan to face your fear.

     The worst thing that can happen is that you will realize that your fear was a pretty good idea to begin with. And the good news there is that once you face your fear, you don’t have to do it again. I faced the fear of putting to birth when I had all my eggs in place until it was late for me to even start trying IVF it was already too late 

     Each day I must tell one girl have your baby before it’s too late . Take away that fear of your parent and do it . It’s your decision and yours only

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Anita Shrestha
Feb 21
Feb 21

Dear Sis
Thank you for sharing this information. Please update regulalry

Jill Langhus
Feb 21
Feb 21

Hi Irene,

So sad:-( Are you able to adopt, dear? I hope you'll be able to feel the love of all the children around you and that your heart will be filled with their love:-)

XX

iNguti
Feb 21
Feb 21

hello dear one thanks for always taking your time to read from me.
presently with sophie ngassa learning . she is actually putting me through. I have been lamenting all this while because the adoption process is too complicated.

Here you can only take them ones you train them they most one day go back to their origin. I will stay with any who is willing or train them and let them decide .

Jill Langhus
Feb 22
Feb 22

Hello dear:-)

You're very welcome! Yay! How's it going?

Too complicated? Well, yes, it's quite long but think of how you would be giving such a loving home to a child? Well, it's worth a thought:-) You mean fostering?

iNguti
Feb 26
Feb 26

Hello my dear . Hope you are doing just ok . Yes I mean fostering . Just that .,that’s what my heart hv been telling me . For a while now . But it’s not easy here in Cameroon .

Jill Langhus
Feb 28
Feb 28

Hello Irene,

I'm doing well, thanks, dear. How are you? Oh, I see. Nothing is ever easy that we really want, I think, but if you really want it you, and the universe will find a way... have faith, honey:-)

XX

Regina Afanwi Young
Feb 22
Feb 22

Hello dear, I feel your pain. Am
Happy you have considered adopting. Keep pushing. One day your heart 's desire will be fulfilled. I can assure you it will be very rewarding.

Metiege Noel Eve
Feb 23
Feb 23

Hello sis Nguti thanks for sharing that post on fear. You just helped me reminiscence on my life and give it a thought on how I got to where I am. Fear of being single after 30 and fear of what society would say. Pushed me to hurriedly enter the wrong marriage but thank GOD. I am dealing with my fears now and creating standards for what I actually want my marriage to look like. While praying to GOD to grant us peace.

iNguti
Feb 23
Feb 23

Dearest sister Noel it’s never too late to combat your fear and face it . You can start even now to face your fear . Hold on to chalenges and you will face it .

Metiege Noel Eve
Feb 23
Feb 23

AMEN

iNguti
Feb 26
Feb 26

Thank you my dear . Hope we are all moving to a better life . It can never be the same .

Beth Lacey
Feb 24
Feb 24

Fear saps the life out of you. I hope the girls you tell your story to don't have to experience what you did.

lizzymark
Feb 24
Feb 24

Hi Irene,so sorry about what you had to go through, fear is really a captor of many,but we can also dare to step out and face it. I've lived with fear too until I had to fight my fear and step out in faith. Thank you for shearing and that you are teaching other girls to step out and face it for good and for their future.