The real world we live as women and the part we choose to accept.

Juliana Imoisili
Posted March 25, 2021 from Nigeria

The real women is often ignored and the borrowed and copied life is seen on social media,

Many women are facing domestic violence, rape,abuse, emotional trauma and the list goes on,

Lost of women this days has created hearts of stones and that of a lion,that nothing scares them anymore,lost of women now are drunks, smokers and deadly than a man, because of what society, marriages, spouse,carrier has turned them into,they have ignored their real self and Face life the way they see it,

Two days ago I stubbled on a woman selling marijuana,I over heard her saying to the buyer not to mention the name in public, because is what she use to feed herself and kids,I was amazed and stock at the same time, what women are doing now, because of what life as turn them into and especially marriages,rape and domestic violence, it's heart breaking.

In all of this you can choose to be different,no matter what you have gone through in life,the choice is yours to make,no one else can do that for you, challenges and battles of life are like exams,if you past it you move to the next level,they are blessings in disguise,be encouraged and do more.

Please my sister's learn to reach out to your fellow neighbor, friend, co-worker when you don't see them for awhile, through calls or visiting, sometimes learn to ask them about their well being, Don't assume everything is fine by what you see on social media,

Lots of women are dieing daily,because no one to confide in,lots have given up hope,

It might just be because of you a soul was save, just by little words of encouragement, Prayers and little financial gift, 

I usually tell people don't acquire wealth you can't use to help others,we came into this world naked and we are returning the same way,be a giver and helper of humanity, that's where the real service his,

Look out for your fellow women, sister's, daughter's and everyone around you,even the male is not excuded,

I'm hear to learn from all my beautiful mummies and sisters around the world and also stand to be corrected.. 

Thanks everyone and much love from me.

This story was submitted in response to The Real Me.

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Jill Langhus
Mar 26
Mar 26

Hi Juliana,

How are you? I agree not to just accept what people look like on social media. Thanks for sharing your empathetic, loving and inspiring message.

Juliana Imoisili
Mar 26
Mar 26

Thanks sister,I doing wonderfully well,And you,hope great,I also wish to learn from wonderful minds like you and everyone on worldpulse,I need mentors to no the right path and channel to take, thanks

Jill Langhus
Mar 27
Mar 27

You're welcome. Glad to hear it:-)

I'm doing well, thanks.

We hope to learn from you, too, dear. You could try mentoringher or micromentor, too, if you're looking for a mentor.

Shirin Dalaki
Mar 26
Mar 26

Dear Juliana,

I love what you wrote, especially this part, "the choice is yours to make, no one else can do that for you".
This is so wise and so true. You have so much love in your heart and it is so nice to read your inspirational message. Thanks for sharing.

Shirin

Juliana Imoisili
Mar 26
Mar 26

Thanks you sister,the all wise God gives knowledge and direction,He brought me to worldpulse for a reason,And I pray it will be established.

Lisa Baker
Mar 27
Mar 27

I love that you applaud this woman for doing what’s best for her family and not judging her. It takes a special person to see past the seemingly obvious and to appreciate we all do what we have to support our families and loved ones. Thank you!

Juliana Imoisili
Mar 28
Mar 28

At many times mother's can do anything for the up keep of their children,I only feel their pains,and if I have the power to help and change things,I would have done it with gladness of heart, it's well.

Lisa Baker
Mar 28
Mar 28

Well said, mothers across the world do so much fir their children happily.

Nini Mappo
Mar 28
Mar 28

Thank you for the reminder to be our sister's keeper, Juliana. And for your compassion to the plights of women and the challenges they face that drive the choices they make. May God help us to be authentic in our care of others.

Juliana Imoisili
Mar 28
Mar 28

Amen,I pray for the voices of women all over the world be heard and let there be gender quality to drive the movement and passion of women to be heard,we must all shine our lights to the world for all to see.