I can remember some month back a woman somewhere in Nigeria. when she wayke up, she cooks, wash, prepare her children for school. After which she set out to go sell her goods in a wheelbarrow. Because of the fact that she was working her husband refuse to perform his duties. And seldomly get beating. My roommate and I render prayers to their family as that was the only thing we could do to intervene. Then I kept wondering and asking some rhetorical questiona, what is this man thinking?, What is the problem with an hardworking woman? Who has taught him what he believed? And on and on.
Let's educate our boys, let tell them any violence against a woman is a Crime/sin, let them know that is not wrong to have an hardworking woman, let them know that men can end violence only if they want to.