Not all that glitter is gold.

KATEMIRI
Posted September 10, 2019 from Nigeria

I was 26 and a married man of 54 insist he wants to marry me.

This all started as he kept giving me financial support when I needed it most in shool. He became so close that i felt i shouldn't hurt him because he was kind to me. 

He was patient with me until this faithful day he called me that he needed help, i went to his house ,i helped him with house chores and after that he called me to his room and grab me, i didn't screem because i felt he won't hurt me.

    I wish someone had educate me about opposite sex. I wasn't scared of the man until he naked himself and I ask "what are you up to?", he replied "you will get to know when i finish. I told him i can't. But before i realise, he graped me with force and was not going to let me move. I didn't struggle, so i told him, "I love you and i will be happier if you marry me. Then he slowly let me and said "i love you too". When do  i want to marry him? Then i to excuse to ease myself and i ran out.

I went  to tell my friends but  they were saying that man is matured, he has money he can take care of me

I refuse to be deceived by his lies.

        Please parent shou teach their children sex education..,.

This story was submitted in response to GirlForce: Unscripted and Unstoppable.

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Jill Langhus
Sep 11
Sep 11

Hi Kate,

Wow! Thanks for sharing your vulnerable story. What quick thinking you had there... I'm impressed, and glad that you weren't raped, for sure. Is this man still bothering you? I hope not.

XX

KATEMIRI
Sep 12
Sep 12

Years later, we meet in his office. He fall to the ground, begging and apologies

Jill Langhus
Sep 13
Sep 13

Oh, wow! This is your husband now? Did I read this correctly below?!

KATEMIRI
Sep 13
Sep 13

I didn't marry the 54 yr old man. I eventually married a young vibrant man.

Jill Langhus
Sep 13
Sep 13

Oh, good:-) Phew. That really had me going...ha:-)

Lisbeth
Sep 11
Sep 11

Haha :-)! Your story was like a short soap opera hehe. Like seriously? But you needed the money I guess haha
Yes all parents, guardians must teach their kids on sex education to avoid mishaps.
Thanks

KATEMIRI
Sep 12
Sep 12

I needed the money... sex education is very important but people in my community don't do sex education.

Lisbeth
Sep 12
Sep 12

Yes I agree with you. :-(

Hello, Katemiri,

Thank you for sharing how you met your husband. How's your marriage today?

KATEMIRI
Sep 12
Sep 12

Fine. Even though not without challenges but for the fact i happy with my husband . He is my play mate

Awww. That's great that it all turn our well with you then. :) Thanks for sharing.:)

Anita Shrestha
Sep 14
Sep 14

Thanks for sharing your experience