Rural African women are expected to feed the family but culturally denied the right to own land. Even the ownership and use of land is a gendered phenomenon. In 1992, when I was 10, together with my 8month pregnant mother, we went to plant cocoyam on one of my Grandfather’s plots. Suddenly, her senior brother surfaced and threw a stick at her. She escaped the throw and took it for one of his usual expensive jokes before he said “since my stick has missed you, my machete will not. You have left your husband’s land to come and cultivate here. I own all the land. I will clear you off the surface of the earth, should you ever dare to cross this plot again”.
This terrified and traumatised me. Wow I thought, how can land tear apart such a lovely brother from a sister? However, I thought my mom was simply unfortunate until 2005 when I started my plantain farm on my father’s plot and a neighbour asked him; how dare you allow your girl child to plant plantains? Those are tricks to own that plot. She surely does not have the intensions of getting married. Why should she Plant plantains? Being the liberal type, my dad said: I give all my kids the same opportunity.
Today, these plantains have fed the family. Their green leaves have added beauty to the lovely organic farm. A place to be and feel: Land, their food our plight.My Story: Getting Started