I know not all of us are are in the merry making mood, that not all of us want to celebrate the way tradition demands and pop culture prescribes...I know this because I am one of such people...and that it's ok to spend the day and season your own best way...to be 'different'...to focus on being merry inside and not outside.
Make it matter to you, memorable to you, liveable to you, loveable you you...