Woman is use to satisfy man!!!

Mba Madapeu
Posted September 5, 2017 from Cameroon

The act of sexual intercourse is the worst form of domination. .. Just 2 women in every 20 women reaches orgasms in their life time.... Women fake it.. Because we want to please men.. Come to think of it . all the position during sexual intercourse is a clear picture of domination... Always trying to satisfy a man.. Women are in trouble... Even during intercourse where two people are suppose to enjoy theirself... But one person dominates.... Greetings to all the virgins... It is better to stay as a virgin than to engage urself in a Win-lost game... YES!!! SEXUAL INTERCOURSE IS A WIN-LOST GAME FOR WOMEN

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Jill Langhus
Sep 05, 2017
Sep 05, 2017

Hi Mba. As much as I can't really say that I'm into sex, I don't agree. There are other positions where women can be in a more empowered position, like on top or on the side. Can't say that I would, but there are options, especially for people that are "into it:-)" And I orgasm quite a lot. You just have to stand up for what you believe in, yourself, and go after what you want and what's right and fair, i.e., it's your right to receive pleasure just as much as it is your partner's. If he loves and respects you, he will return the favor. If he does not, you are in the wrong relationship. Making love can absolutely be a loving, mutually exclusive rewarding act, if you are in a loving, respectful relationship. I wish that all women on the planet knew that they deserved this and could have it.

Nakinti
Sep 05, 2017
Sep 05, 2017

Hello Mba,

You have spoken well. I think I agree with jlanghus, there a lot more ways through which women can experience orgasm as much as they want. It's a matter of being in a relationship with the right man who understands your needs. I understand a lot of African women still do not experience orgasm, your statistics may be correct in our context. This is because a lot of women got into relationships just for the sake of getting married and taking care of their husband, not the other way round. For this reason, this women see no reason to negotiate sex or even demand pleasure in the act from their partners. With more education for women and sensitization, the situation is changing. I hope more and more women will enjoy relationships, sex and everything that warms their hearts.

Thanks for sharing

Nakinti

Mba Madapeu
Sep 05, 2017
Sep 05, 2017

You are  all correct. .but don't  forget  that we live in a society  where sexuality  as a whole  is not  a subjects of  discussion, if it is,  then it's meant only for men and boys...sometimes  socialisation  ,culture  that makes women  feel  ,they are born to satisfy  men. ..but we shall get there .a better  society  for  men  and  women 

Jill Langhus
Sep 06, 2017
Sep 06, 2017

Yes, this needs to change, as a whole. It doesn't make sense to not discuss it. We're just as visual and sexual as men. We have needs, too, and deserve to have those needs met. We can all do better on this topic. It was hard for me to open up on this topic, but it's one topic that I keep challenging myself to open more up on, because it's necessary not only for my own development but also for everyone that I discuss it with to feel comfortable with discussing as well.