Women sex life

Women sacrifice alot for the sake of their marriage one of this is sex many women do not enjoy sex and others fake orgasms just to please their men. I myself dont like sex and I dont fake it i say it loudly. One thing that men do not understand is that our bodies respond differently from theirs research shows that men think about sex every 25 minutes of their lives women dont and men assume that once they have sex its automatic for their partners to enjoy just like them. A man can be turned on just by looking at a naked women while to us women its not true.Sex is psychological because when a woman has some worries she may not react positively to it. Men need to take time to learn how women bodies function so as to please them better. Women enjoy foreplay and men should take time on fore play this should not take less than 15-20 minutes. Most African men are not romantic they expect women to be turned on once they go to bed they start immediately not giving their women time to prepare and enjoy it making their women to feel used and not loved what do you think can improve women urge for more sex?