WOMAN YOU ARE POWERFUL

WOMAN YOU ARE POWERFUL

I begin this article on woman power,by rendering gratitude to the man who made me realize that a woman's efforts to fulfilling our purpose in life and her voice can turn things around for good. Thank you Tata Wirba Usmaila, the Founder and Executive Director of Mbiame New Vision,https://www.facebook.com/mbiamenewvision/ for inspiring me to raise my voice louder for the awareness on the rights of  fellow women on the strengths women poses.,

From  my first article titled.
 \"Men loosen your grip over women\"
Here are the measures,I think women should adopt so that men won't have  total control over them.

Women !! Empower yourselves and get the society to respectfully listen to you. In that way, you will enjoy your rights and freedom from control.

Never make the mistake of thinking that you are a man, just because it is said that women are equal to men. Some feminists have used this misconceived slogan to push some women to compete with men. This is wrong and against the plan of the creator. You are woman and that is how beautiful you are so be true to yourself as a woman. Accept yourself as a woman and live like one.

Follow you passions,  live your dreams, yes, they are those of your gender; live a life of purpose, yes you are purposeful. If you are scared that a man may not let you do all that when  you marry  him, get yourself busy before you marry him; then he will accept you as you come and have no project of panel-beating over you.

Do not be scared of men, don't be afraid of them. They are just the source of your being; you are bone of their bone and flesh of their flesh - no competition. Discuss your ambitions, your desires and your wishes  \"respectfully\" with your man and be sure that he will understand and support you than control you. And did he not understand when he opened his eyes and saw you stark naked before him when God made you!

Never  marry a man while you are  jobless because you risk to solely depend on him. But if you both agree sell your ego and buy one passion,then you just won a journey of faith.  He also needs to depend on you for something Sometime. Become an  entrepreneur.  A man will love you more when you also work and sustain your home, him included. That way, he cannot get hold over you. No man is born to keep getting hold of women. Don't prove desperate because you are not, be a bulldozer, woman! Be one and start to be it right here and now! Come on! Don't sell your freedom for money; you are not that cheap nor an article! Your love for money may be the reason a man controls you around. Make use of the education you got or the vocational training and skill you master. Don't be a lazy woman, for laziness and womanhood do not match.

Be true to yourselves. Be real - be \"nakedly\" honest, for that is how you came into this world. Don't tell a man you are what you are not, or you can do what you cannot. Never underestimate yourself, be confident. Know that a man values you to the measure at which you value yourself; that the reason why he smiles when he sees you. He did that when he first saw you and he will continue to do that each time he sees you. Supply the chances for the smile. Step up your discussion tactics with men and some ideas in their minds will die naturally; they love good ideals, starting from a good meal

Dear Women use the soft spot tactics of ours and teach your men. Some men are as ignorant about equally rights as you are. Make effort to know yourself and your partner and work with him in the spirit of complementarity and not competition.

women be armed with gentleness, humility, simplicity and above all patience in the pursuit of all yours goals.Most of all avoid entering into an iron fist competition with your man.Marriage is not for the weak but is not also a battle ground.

Love yourself so that you will be loved. You just need the will and you will do more. Above all, communication and understanding is key to every relationship. make a man out of what you have and who you are. Woman! Woman! Woman!