"He, could be the key"



As a professional journalist, I've encountered many cases and stories show the bias and the oppression that women in middle East including my self are dealing with, "women are nothing they are blunt and retarded" those words were included from latest report was released by "The National Center for Social and Criminalogical research (Ncscr) after making a referendum among group of men from different levels of education and social classes.



This disaster report can be connected to many crimes still committ against females in society , like sexual harassment, verbal and physical assult, oppression , if we analysis the reasons behind this behavior will Discover many elements



First, the wrong interpretation to many religious beliefs such as women and the how they are treated , due to the dominant control of the fanatics And the salafis clerics who constantly dwelling females with sin with an assurance that the majority of women will be burst in hell at judgment day!!



Second, the momentum of the villagers and the famine who imposed many traditional costumes and behaviors like Al bourque means the black thick vail the covers women from head to toe, and not allowed to take it off outside her house,also the culture of marriage of minor girls nevertheless it has been banned and became illegal .



As a result ,majority of women surrendered to this elements brain washed, forming a league against any female stands or took the lead to break through this behaviors or try to change it.



For instance I myself for going against the tide for not wearing the veil been boycott from fellow workers even one of them came towards me once with angery face shouting ,God will punish you by cancer so your hair will fall then you'll were veil.



"Even so I will wore a beautiful Weg, or a gorgeous extensions" I replied with a smile.



All this made me came out with some solutions maybe one day, hopefully soon things will change



First, chosing the right partner to raise your children with in a loving, respectable, creative environment.



Second, don't buy toys to your son define genders, let him choose what he wants.



Third, schools must manifeste an equall rolls fullfil by both genders, and cultivate the roots of sincere friendship between the two genders.



Fourth, Media and journalism outlets must have a unity in plan to create a respectable materials to encourage young men and boy to respect women by making a spotlight to all women leaders, and the successful ones



Finally, bann all the fanatics from taking the lead , and prevent them from manipulating both genders.



Written by,



Nagwa Nasr

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