Do not give up on yourself!!!

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Posted February 1, 2020 from Cameroon

Even if the world gives up on you….do not give up on yourself

Hello everyone!!!

It’s been a while I haven't been consistent with my posts…. I’d say as an inspirational and motivational blogger, lately I have been challenged to prove that what I say is actually what I live by…

These past few months have been within the dark shades of my very existence. Times when I had to bare so much pain that even tears were tired of pouring down my cheeks. 

There is a lot going on…both good and ugly. Sometimes we loose the courage to fight because we have been fighting for far too long and there seem never to be a solution.

This is exactly how I felt…..

But then again there was something that struck my mind….a lesson I learnt and I am dying to share with all you:

1. The pains and tough expiriences we go through make up our success story. We will only have a better appreciation to life when we have failed once. It gives us a sense of accomplishment. That despite the mess we still pulled through.

2. In the face of adversity the true nature of a man is revealed. It’s rather so easy to manage the good….and very demanding to manage the vice….

Do you easily give up?

Do you stop fighting??

Do you blame others for your predicament?

Be a fighter and choose not to quit on yourself…

Do not let yourself down!!!!

Cry if you may, have some alone time if you wish....but always remember you can not give up on yourself!

3. Nothing ever happens for nothing. So when the turmoils come….know they have a reason for coming…it’s up to you to find it…

4. We can’t always have it smooth. There’s no victory without failure. Pain is part of life….

But it’s up to you to see it as such or as a pushing force that determines the direction of your life.

5. Never let others affect you….the moment you do, you give them control over your life.

 

I have been laughed at several times for wanting to inspire with my words. Even my own family didn't see it as anything worthy!

That's how messy things can get for us sometimes when we think that there's a shoulder somewhere we can rely on.

But! Winners go through battles. If there is no battle....there is no winner.

So dear sisters wherever you are struggling and battling with certain issues in your life.....know we have the responsibility to keep the crown to ourselves. Fight for it and get it!!!!!

A happy begining of the week

Much love ❤️

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maeann
Feb 02
Feb 02

I like what you say about winners need to go through battles. Every one of us needs to face battles, one thing that I hope is that no one should give up on the battle they are facing. Naomi, thanks for this timely reminder. Have a great week :)

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 02
Feb 02

I greatly appreciate your kind words

Marie Abanga
Feb 02
Feb 02

Hello Naomi,

Welcome back. Here is to the resilient you. I wish you a lot of growth as yo go through it all.
Warm regards
Marie

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 02
Feb 02

Thank you so much dear sister

Tamarack Verrall
Feb 02
Feb 02

Dear Naomi,
The creativity of a poet, the wisdom of one who has faced such challenges. "Cry if you may, have some alone time if you wish....but always remember you can not give up on yourself!" We live in such difficult times, and through them the wisdom and self love to take time to heal ourselves from the pain we experience and absorb from others' lives is so important. Shine on, you are truly an inspirational writer.

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 02
Feb 02

I am indeed so humbled and happy to hear these words from you dear sis...it's an immense pleasure for me and support to keep inspiring with my words.
Thank you

Anita Kiddu Muhanguzi

Dear Naomi,
It is good to have you back. We surely missed you. Am so sorry for the dark times that you have been going through and I pray that the good times made every day worth living. Thank you so much for always remaining positive despite the tough times. It is so true that we should never ever give up on ourselves no matter what situation we are always in.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on this and looking forward to more of your posts.

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 05
Feb 05

Thank you so much sis

Metiege Noel Eve
Feb 03
Feb 03

Sure sister our personal experiences shape us better and lessons in life learnt are far more educating
Anytime we try to teach and use our own personal experiences the lesson is more authentic and real.

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 05
Feb 05

I can't agree anyless with you. Thanks

Anita Shrestha
Feb 03
Feb 03

Dear Sis
Thank you very much sharing for this story. Keep it continue

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 05
Feb 05

Thank you too sister for reading

Nene Nkengla
Feb 04
Feb 04

Hello sister Noami,
This is really great. I love the beginning of your post where it says " even the world gives up on you, do not give up on your self". Thank you for inspiring me. Hope you are doing fine

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 05
Feb 05

Hi sis Nene thank you so much for stopping by and going through my thoughts. I wish u a blissful and successful end of the week

Hello, Naomi,

Thank you for sharing the lessons you've learned from your painful life experiences. You are truly brave, inspirational, and resilient. You have us here, dear, even when it feels like you are going through something alone. This is what World Pulse is all about: to support and encourage every woman and to let her feel that she is not alone in this demanding, challenging, cruel world.

Keep writing, dear. Your words are life-giving. It is a gift. Keep using it! Have a great day!

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 05
Feb 05

Thank you so much sis,
Truly I feel so happy being part of this family.
This is the only place where I feel so free to scribble down my thoughts.

You're always welcome, dear. We are happy that you are here, too. I share the same feelings. Keep it up, dear. Have a lovely day!

Akshaya9
Feb 06
Feb 06

Hi Naomi,
Thank you for sharing this. This can be helpful to me or even to other sister's who can feel of losing hope and feel to give up the battle they facing.

You're right we don't give up and continue fighting for it. Hope you doing fine.

Have a nice day dear

Njemo Naomi Mabuh
Feb 06
Feb 06

Thank you so much for reading through.....and I'm so pleased to meet u here. Hope to read from you soonest

Akshaya9
Feb 11
Feb 11

Your welcome dear