My sisterhood and encourager nomination

Jane
Posted December 11, 2019 from South Africa

My past experience made me to dwell and focus more into reading than share my emotions with anyone especially after I lost my only one true friend and love and I was again lost in the world of loneliness because I concluded that I worthed nothing even the tiniest love and meant nothing to anyone, which was the seed planted in my head and heart, so books were my solace my confidante because they wouldnt respond or saying anything to me, we (books and I) could talk to each other in silence and understood each other in silence. So when I read Anthon St. Maarten, he made me start to loosen up hence ended here where I met my sister and my encourager, Jill Langhus-Griffin

It is said that highly sensitive people are too often perceived as weaklings or damaged goods. To feel intensely is not a symptom of weakness, it is the trademark of the truly alive and compassionate. It is not the empath who is broken, it is society that has become dysfunctional and emotionally disabled. There is no shame in expressing your authentic feelings. Those who are at times described as being a 'hot mess' or having 'too many issues' are the very fabric of what keeps the dream alive for a more caring, humane world. Never be ashamed to let your tears shine a light in this world.

I have been one person who normally want to share the difficult things in my life because I felt no need to add more stress and pressure to other's own burden and already hectic life. We all have our issues and need to deal with life and its problems in our own way BUT Jill happened to be a sister who "somehow" made me open up so easily about the death of my daughter and the strangest way of her death. I managed to pour out my heart for the first time and felt that load and anger and hatred I have been carrying was like something was off my shoulders, I felt light and I felt, for the first time I could see things in a different ways. Sister Jill, you might have not known or maybe because I have never mentioned, yo gave me the reason of "why" I should forgive. Even IF I cant forget but forgiveness is like  a breath of fresh air, I started to breath from the long suffocation from hatred and anger and for this I am so grateful to you. 

I’m still on the road of trying to figure out how to deal with my problems rather than just keeping them all bottled up inside. talking to you and to your referral, you both listened as I let things off my chest. It made me feel better knowing that I won’t be judged and you will told me like it is was that it might have been God's time for my daughter to go the way she did. No lies. Just straight up honesty even thought it was something I didnt want to hear or said the way you said it. Thank you for encouraging me to open up which formed part of my healing process. Words can surely be enough to express how grateful I am to have welcomed me here at World Pulse and made me see this was the better platform to voice out, to learn from others and share my life experiences with others as we heal each other.

To World Pulse sisterhood, thank you all for the support, the directors who started and created this platform for the voiceless people like myself we say "Salute" to you re great initiative, even though I meet with community people and some doesnt know or hear about face book BUT the good news is, they know about World Pulse and it is part of their petition signature that is indeed a voice of the voiceless. Thank you for allowing us the opportunity to share and learn from each other as much as embracing each other, supporting without judging each other. I and We love you World Pulse, keep up the good work and thank you once again.

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Wusufor
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hi again Jane,
Thanks again for your Nominees. Jill is a great sister for all of us. It's unfortunate she and Karen are staffs and hence disqualify.
I hope you got a lots of more sister you can think of. There is three nomination forms. Sisterhood, Ambassadorship and Encourager.
Best wishes on your subsequent posts and have a great day.
Warm regards

Jane
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

My dear sister Lisbeth, I must say I have long list of my beautiful sister here like yourself I would have written 100 stories about you here and I have no doubt in my heart and mind, you all so amazing and have been so encouraging and supporting, what came to my mind was the 1st 2 I first met and made me stay here and be able to open my heart and soul to the world which was something I used to shy away from. Thank so much and thanks to you too for being that sister to me. I love you

Wusufor
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hehe :-),
I also had them as Nominees but later was informed by them that they are not qualify :-(.

Good to know that. We are all waiting for your new Nominees haha.

Take care of yourself.
Warm regards

Jill Langhus
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hello Lovely Jane,

What a beautifully written and heartfelt post. I'm so grateful to have met you and to have been the catalyst to steer you in the right direction to gift yourself with forgiveness. It's so wonderful to hear that are freer than you have been in a very long time. I can feel it and sense it in every post, and for that I'm very grateful. I can feel my heart filling and my eyes tearing because I know I have made a big difference in you lift. Thank you so much for sharing your nomination and heartfelt words.

I also appreciate and agree with your words of appreciation for World Pulse. Where would we be without this wonderful platform and sisterhood:-)

I wish you much more continued success on your journey, and healing journey, dear.

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Jane
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Thanks again and again Jill, as said no amount of word I could write down right now that can overwrite my gratitude for your encouragement and the ear to listen. Thank you

Jill Langhus
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Aw. Thank you again:-) You're very welcome, dear:-)

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Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hello, sister Jane,

You are undoubtedly a great writer and a storyteller. I enjoy reading this post like your other posts as always. Awww. You're so sweet in nominating Jill. She truly deserves your kind and loving words. The encourager needs to be encouraged from time to time, too. We love you, dear. Thank you for this loving message to our dear Jill.

Jill Langhus
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Thanks, Karen:-) Indeed... so true:-)

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

You're welcome, dear. :)

Jill Langhus
Dec 14, 2019
Dec 14, 2019

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Beth Lacey
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

World Pulse is indeed a blessing to thousands of women

Anita Shrestha
Dec 14, 2019
Dec 14, 2019

Thank you for sharing

maeann
Dec 19, 2019
Dec 19, 2019

Thank you for nominating Jill as an Encourager and Sisterhood. She indeed has the World Pulse Spirit.