Be angry !

Rekabi Rafika
Posted December 22, 2017 from Algeria

Emotions can drive you very quickly to go after all the things you want in life..if you use them the right way!,but when it comes to anger, almost everyone understands anger's power to be destructive.People say things in anger that hurt other people's feelings, they can even act of their anger violently causing physical pain and injuries,now what is not well understood is that is anger is not just a dysfunctional hormone in the human design, It is there for a reason and it is extremely valuable.This emotion is a natural healing energy that's the body generates in response to injury along with sadness. When i was at high-school i hated math and physicswhich were the most essential modules in my field , so i got badmarks, i failed, i repeated my second year for the second time ad i got fired from high school.i was only 19 YO i had goals,i had plans that being fired is none of them .I was so damn disappointed, sad and hopeless and same goes for my parents..i had no chance but to accept my failure which was laterally impossible for a girl like me , a girl who has always dreamed of having a great career and a better life that poorness is not a part of it .It was such a nightmare andespecially when all my family heard about it..i wasat my uncle's house, when his wife mockingly said : " you'd better start learning a new craft darling ! ". I remember it clearly , it was one of the most important moments in my life, cause i have felt a strong emotion, but this time it wasn't a feeling of sadness, it wasn't a feeling of disappointment, not a feeling of embarrassment but it was a feeling of Anger..i felt so mad, i was so angry inside so i decided right then not only to pass my second year but to pass my baccalaureate exam and to be able to study at college the only module that i like which is " English language " and that's exactly what happened ..even-though i had to face a lot of struggles, one of them was to convince a headmaster of another high-school to accept me as a new regretted student who's totally ready to take advantage of this opportunityin all meanings of the word, but it happened , i succeeded , i could prove her wrong , i made it clear for her that i'm much goals to achieve than staying homelearning new crafts..but it happened because i got angry!

Weather the enemy is someone else telling you what you can or can't do or an emotion like fear causing you not to live the life you deserve...be angry!!you really can change your life when you decide what kind of person you wannabe or what kind of life you wanna live!

If you have a goal , don't let anyone or any emotion tells you it isn't possible, got mad and ione instant you can regain control of your destiny.

 

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Jill Langhus
Dec 23, 2017
Dec 23, 2017

Hi Rekabi. Welcome to World Pulse:-) I agree with the powerful lesson you have in your story. I believe that anger can be funneled and redirected towards motivating us. I do think, though, that people are happier when they move towards goals because they want to do something rather than doing it out of spite or to prove a point to anyone else, other than themselves. Do you have your degree now? What is your career or mission/passion in life?

Rekabi Rafika
Dec 23, 2017
Dec 23, 2017

Hi Jlanghus !  I am currently in second year of my studies of English literature at Algiers University, i intend inchallah to teach English learners in turkey, the country of my dreams but first i have to increase my level at English and to be able to speak it fluently..that's why i'm looking for native speakers to practice my English with them.

Jill Langhus
Dec 24, 2017
Dec 24, 2017

Hi there. Very good:-) Oh, I see. I highly recommend Mylanguageexchange.com. It's free and I found a lot of people to practice/learn Spanish with on there. Duolingo and Memrise are also great apps for learning different languages as well. Hope it helps. Let me know:) Have a great day!

Olutosin
Dec 23, 2017
Dec 23, 2017

Yes you are right. I will call this type of anger; holy anger.

Thank you for remembering me, I will use it to achieve my dreams.

SIMON MUREU
Dec 20, 2018
Dec 20, 2018

GOOD STORY AND ADVICE