My FATHER is my Strength

Qurratulayn Khan
Posted December 24, 2019 from Pakistan

I'm extremely humble to be a part of this Platform and today here; I want to share my very important  lesson of my life which was delivered to me by my Father. My Father is my Best_Friend he always fight to for me with the society, he faces many Hardships for my study, He is very simple man even he himself did't get proper education in his life due to circumstance, but he determined for me and wanted to make me an educated women.

When I was a little girl my Father always told me, that "A Pakistani women; almost depended on man,

when she is young; she is depended on her Father,

when she is married; she is depended on her Husband,

when she is old; she is depended on her Son,

and I don't want to be like that, not to be among from them, I want you to be an independent women and wanted to be you Master of your destiny, and this can be done by the only way you can do, that if you are educated then you can stand on your own two feet,"

I'm really Lucky to have Parents like them, who gave me opportunities to get education, who let me do what I wanted to do" my parents Believe on me, most of time they Fight for me with the society and with my own relatives, and today I decided to work towards Women empowerment in Pakistan and for that I want a hand of #UN #Sisters and the #Worldpulse, I want opportunity which I want to gave back to the Society , and make a difference among Past and Future of the women's place in the society.

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Zohra Elias
Dec 24, 2019
Dec 24, 2019

Hello Qurratulayn,

Welcome back to worldpulse!

That’s a lovely message that you are sharing with us about fathers and parents at whole.

Keep up for your beliefs and good luck in your advocacy for women empowerment in your community.

Warm regards,

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

Hi dear Zohra,
thank you soooo much
love

Zohra Elias
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

You are so welcome dear!
Best wishes.

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

:)

Anita Shrestha
Dec 24, 2019
Dec 24, 2019

Dear Sister
In Nepal also same things happen like your country and saying
that "A Nepali women; almost depended on man,

when she is young; she is depended on her Father,

when she is married; she is depended on her Husband,

when she is old; she is depended on her Son,

Lisbeth
Dec 24, 2019
Dec 24, 2019

Haha:-), dear Anita I never knew you are this funny ha. What a nice comment you gave out there, honestly I like it. Keep this up!
Regards

Anita Shrestha
Dec 24, 2019
Dec 24, 2019

Yes dear Lisbeth that is saying in each and every house. And even in our course boook of past. Now change of course book or not, I dont know

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

Hello Miss,
I do agree with you, thank you for comment
regards

Lisbeth
Dec 24, 2019
Dec 24, 2019

Dear Mss Khan,
What a lovely post. It's good to know how your father brought you up to be independent despite your upbringing and society norms.
I can feel the proudness you got for your Dad. Splendid!

My warm greetings and take care of yourself.
Lizzy

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

Hello Dear,
your words mean a lot for me :)
well wisher

Tamarack Verrall
Dec 24, 2019
Dec 24, 2019

Dear Qurratulayn,
How great to know that from the beginning you were supported and seen as equal, deserving of your life as you want to live it, by your father. It takes honesty, clarity and courage to go against the flow of old sayings, sayings repeated to keep this unfair and too often cruel system in place. He wanted you to be free to be yourself. This is a man who deserves to be raised up as a role model for all men. Shine on, sister. I hope you get to the UN, and that you feel lots of support along the way from your World Pulse sisters. So good to meet you here.

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

Hello Tamarack Verral,
Feel good to read your comment, dear you are right old saying repeated time to time, and my Father indeed a model to all men in the world.
thank you soo much for your words
pleasure to meet you here
love

Andra Marasteanu
Dec 24, 2019
Dec 24, 2019

Your parents are your blessing. I am happy for you that your father supports you in this way, he is an amazing man. You will do great things and the opportunities will arise for you to fulfil your dreams of reaching the stars!

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

Hey Andra,
Thank you dear, may your words come true.
respect

Esraa Eltaweel
Dec 25, 2019
Dec 25, 2019

Dear sister Qurratulayn,
Your words about your father touched my heart. It is really a great blessing to have such supportive parents in our societies. Please send him my respectful greetings.
Warm regards,
Esraa

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

Dear Esraa,
Thank you dear for appreciation, you are right: I bough my head towards the Mercy of Allah on me sure I do :) now its my time to fulfill his dreams for me and our tribe.
love

Akshaya9
Dec 25, 2019
Dec 25, 2019

Hi Qurratulayn,
Hope you doing fine dear. Thank you for sharing your story about your father.

Good luck to your work towards Women Empowerment dear.

Have a nice day.

Qurratulayn Khan
Dec 26, 2019
Dec 26, 2019

hello dear,
Welcome in sisterhood dear :)
Good to know about your remarks
regards

Akshaya9
Dec 30, 2019
Dec 30, 2019

Your welcome dear :-)

Have a nice day.

Qurratulayn Khan
Jan 01
Jan 01

:)