if you are confident you are beautiful!

Rakhshinda Shakir
Posted August 29, 2017 from Pakistan

I think confidence is the utmost beauty one can have and those who lag it are in my eyes the ugliest. What can be ugly then the voice that cant speak up? Be confident and say what bothers you and what do you want in clear words looking eye to eye. That is what in my eyes makes confidence the prettiest, the bravest and the only best. Yes that sheer confidence sparkling in your eyes is what I call beauty!

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Jill Langhus
Aug 29, 2017
Aug 29, 2017

Hi Rakshi. Thanks for sharing your thoughts on confidence and beauty. I do think that confidence can be beautiful, but I think for a lot of people it can be difficult to be confident, given the circumstances that they have gone through or under. For me, I would say the ultimate beauty is authenticity for when someone is genuine their soul literally imbues every aspect of their entire being.

Rakhshinda Shakir
Aug 29, 2017
Aug 29, 2017

Every thing is taught to us once we are born. We follow a certain system of laws and regulations and in a particular community. I think majority of girls and guys learn beauty standards. They are taught by the society or by the system which they follow on how to appear beautiful, and sadly those standards are materialistic and less intellectual. A lot of girls I have seen are impressed by the fashion taste and would do anything to apply that on which in my eyes has no recommendation and is very useless which is also a certain that not every body can afford either. In comparison if beauty standards are considered in a society or in any system  on intellectual and natural basis then I think people will come up with learning to be confident in what they have and who they are. That is what makes us beautiful and we are all beautiful in our own little ways!! :)  

Jill Langhus
Aug 30, 2017
Aug 30, 2017

I think I know what you mean. What is an intellectual and natural basis, though. I think people that aren't necessarily that smart can still be beautiful and confident, though.

Veronica Ngum Ndi
Aug 29, 2017
Aug 29, 2017

Encouragement

Hello Rakshi. You have wonderful thoughts on beauty and confidence.As a woman with a disability I have experience stigma and marginalization. But I did my best to be empowered and now I have developed full confidence. True beauty is when your are natural and true to yourself and let your beauty explode from the inside to the outside.All the courage my champion

Veronica 

Rakhshinda Shakir
Aug 29, 2017
Aug 29, 2017

What could be beautiful then that confidence that you have built within your self!! The ugliest are those who have marginalized you and how unfortunate is it that they don't  even know how ugly they are!! Don't you think? You are miss universe I must say!! Love and admiration for life time!!

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