Life is so unpredictable so far

riazsana
Posted November 11, 2020 from Pakistan

Well im helath professional and yes I dreamed  so high as direct  dealing  with daily community..one day when one of mature  aged lady came to my office and asked  me for my marital  status I said no I'm  single yet she use to rush to admin as she is form elite status  and easily  get my bio data,after some  days I heard form  home that someone  wanted to see you for marriage  proposal..I said ok I'll  come  home well there was same lady at my place I was bit surprised as she may also from my hometown my parents  give permission  to her  for final yes! After one week she insist  first nikkah (marriage)and unfortunately my family  trapped  in her gossips..in short rite after marriage I get to know that guy was already  married  having 1 kid and most surprisingly  that girl  was also doctor  by profession  same like me..I was shocked  to hear that and get in trauma for 5 months  after that  I decided  to enquire  the things  but when I close to reality he started  abuse me,physically  tortured, me and his whole family  blame me for nothing  cuz they know well about their  son, after kneen observation  I came to know that my husband has done psychological  illness when I tried to made consultation of psychiatric he again use to abuse and slap me for nothing..in 1 year of relationship  I have learned  a lot that nobody  can predict  about your future  your life I was very jolly and loving child from childhood  but what GOD has decided  for me I never  even expected in my entire life..

lastly  I ve  decided  to take divorce from him as I'm  on depression  phase 2 and taking medication  from almost 4 month's I strongly  took step and come forward not for some one but for me just for the sake of inner me I have lost my confidence  my job due to his conservative  and rubbished  thought simply  that family destroyed  me but one of my friend  and my elder  give me courage  to write to pursue and to tell my story to every  girl you prevent  from such trash and disgusting  families  around!

I want to live again i want to resume  my carrier  again i I strongly  need prayers  and last but not least don't  bother such people's when they suppose  to know your home address  not everyone's pious in this world to own daughter  of someone  else...

Thanx

 

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Jill Langhus
Nov 11, 2020
Nov 11, 2020

Hello Riazsana,

Welcome to World Pulse! Thanks so much for sharing your sad story, and creating more awareness around this challenge, and custom. So sad. I'm sorry that you are going through this. I'm glad you're pursuing a divorce, but I'm sorry to hear about your depression. Please let us know how we can help!

XX

riazsana
Nov 21, 2020
Nov 21, 2020

Thanks jill em so humbled to hear such a worthy comment from you need more prayers..

Jill Langhus
Nov 23, 2020
Nov 23, 2020

You're welcome, dear.

Okay, dear. We can do that:-)

Please keep us posted on your progress, and if there's anything we can do to help. XX

Beth Lacey
Nov 13, 2020
Nov 13, 2020

Welcome to World Pulse

riazsana
Nov 21, 2020
Nov 21, 2020

Thanx Beth Lacey Lacey sweetheart..

maeann
Nov 14, 2020
Nov 14, 2020

Welcome to World Pulse Riazsana :) Your story is your power.

Thank you for having the courage to share about your story. May you find help to recover especially that you are undergoing depression.

I hear you. Be strong.

riazsana
Nov 21, 2020
Nov 21, 2020

Thank you very much maeann..

Nini Mappo
Nov 15, 2020
Nov 15, 2020

Hello Riazsana,
I'm so sorry to learn about your ordeal, and how you lost so much by marrying an abusive man. I hope that you will be free soon and resume your life. You are beautiful and gifted and you helped so many clients when you worked. Just because him and his family can't see that doesn't change the beauty of the person you are.
I am praying that healing comes fully, for depression, and also to regain your joy and your confidence and purpose. You are worthy, and you have purpose. Keep believing and finding courage everyday. I send you hugs and sparkles to brighten your day :)

riazsana
Nov 21, 2020
Nov 21, 2020

Thanks for your kind words em so thankful and always need such a courageous and worthy words from ppl like you loads of love..xx

Hawwah
Dec 12, 2020
Dec 12, 2020

Dear Raizsana,
Welcome to world pulse dear sister, you came to the right place to get the support, encouragement and sisterhood you need to help you through this trying time.
I am so sorry about your experience but happy to hear you are getting treatment and a divorce.
You will be fine and not just back to your normal self but better.
Feel free to reach out to us if you need anything.
In love and sisterhood,
Hawwah.

Brighteststar
Feb 15
Feb 15

I wish you all the best and don’t let those horrible people put you down.