Well im helath professional and yes I dreamed so high as direct dealing with daily community..one day when one of mature aged lady came to my office and asked me for my marital status I said no I'm single yet she use to rush to admin as she is form elite status and easily get my bio data,after some days I heard form home that someone wanted to see you for marriage proposal..I said ok I'll come home well there was same lady at my place I was bit surprised as she may also from my hometown my parents give permission to her for final yes! After one week she insist first nikkah (marriage)and unfortunately my family trapped in her gossips..in short rite after marriage I get to know that guy was already married having 1 kid and most surprisingly that girl was also doctor by profession same like me..I was shocked to hear that and get in trauma for 5 months after that I decided to enquire the things but when I close to reality he started abuse me,physically tortured, me and his whole family blame me for nothing cuz they know well about their son, after kneen observation I came to know that my husband has done psychological illness when I tried to made consultation of psychiatric he again use to abuse and slap me for nothing..in 1 year of relationship I have learned a lot that nobody can predict about your future your life I was very jolly and loving child from childhood but what GOD has decided for me I never even expected in my entire life..
lastly I ve decided to take divorce from him as I'm on depression phase 2 and taking medication from almost 4 month's I strongly took step and come forward not for some one but for me just for the sake of inner me I have lost my confidence my job due to his conservative and rubbished thought simply that family destroyed me but one of my friend and my elder give me courage to write to pursue and to tell my story to every girl you prevent from such trash and disgusting families around!
I want to live again i want to resume my carrier again i I strongly need prayers and last but not least don't bother such people's when they suppose to know your home address not everyone's pious in this world to own daughter of someone else...
Thanx
Hello Riazsana,
Welcome to World Pulse! Thanks so much for sharing your sad story, and creating more awareness around this challenge, and custom. So sad. I'm sorry that you are going through this. I'm glad you're pursuing a divorce, but I'm sorry to hear about your depression. Please let us know how we can help!
XX
Thanks jill em so humbled to hear such a worthy comment from you need more prayers..
You're welcome, dear.
Okay, dear. We can do that:-)
Please keep us posted on your progress, and if there's anything we can do to help. XX
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Thanx Beth Lacey Lacey sweetheart..
Welcome to World Pulse Riazsana :) Your story is your power.
Thank you for having the courage to share about your story. May you find help to recover especially that you are undergoing depression.
I hear you. Be strong.
Thank you very much maeann..
Hello Riazsana,
I'm so sorry to learn about your ordeal, and how you lost so much by marrying an abusive man. I hope that you will be free soon and resume your life. You are beautiful and gifted and you helped so many clients when you worked. Just because him and his family can't see that doesn't change the beauty of the person you are.
I am praying that healing comes fully, for depression, and also to regain your joy and your confidence and purpose. You are worthy, and you have purpose. Keep believing and finding courage everyday. I send you hugs and sparkles to brighten your day :)
Thanks for your kind words em so thankful and always need such a courageous and worthy words from ppl like you loads of love..xx
Dear Raizsana,
Welcome to world pulse dear sister, you came to the right place to get the support, encouragement and sisterhood you need to help you through this trying time.
I am so sorry about your experience but happy to hear you are getting treatment and a divorce.
You will be fine and not just back to your normal self but better.
Feel free to reach out to us if you need anything.
In love and sisterhood,
Hawwah.
I wish you all the best and don’t let those horrible people put you down.