To Be body confident! To just be you..

Rosegold
Posted April 3, 2021 from United Kingdom

Another step in the right direction.. I am here to show the women and young girls of the world that to always be yourself. Love who you are no matter how others see you beacuse thier opinon doesn`t matter, no one can tell you to be someone different always be you. 

I have been running my campaign for a few months now but using my body as a canvas I love to use art to express who I really am, art is my life and my passion and I use it to help others too. For so long I have hidden away, in a shell letting the world judge me. Letting others take control of me being in bad relationships ones that you feel are impossible to leave. But you have to find that hidden strength because you have 3 little ones to look after and protect as well as yourself, far to long I have let them win and enough was enough I stood up and brushed myself off and told myself I have to find a better life. 

Finally I took the most bravest step and walked away... with my 3 kids behind me and made a new life rebuilt it from stratch, had nothing apart from our clothes in bags. It took every bit of last strength to do what I did and even the fight wasn`t over, 2 years to this day I am writing this I want to show that no matter how hard life seems there is always a silver lining to look for. 

i use my art to produce my own products to help women from all walks of life to show that we can share our hidden emotions, and that the support is out there no matter how much we hide away. But I have gone a step bigger and launched my Be body confident campaign! To use myself to show the world no matter how much life kicks you down but to get back up and fight back stronger. 

Here I stand as a warrior.. a fighter, brave sexy and as confident as ever.. and finally a man that loves me for who I am, not wanting to control me, not wanting to be over my shoulder every move I make, not to shout at me and make me cry, and make me feel i am worth nothing in this world. I have a man who lets my flourish, to be supportive with everything I do and that loves every fault, every mark, every scar and cherishes me. 

And for that it has helped me be the woman I have always meant to be.. I do my work to show that women can be strong and that why should it just be a man`s world out there times are changing dear siters and we are not going to hide away anymore. We are coming out , being braver, confident and more sexier than ever we deserve to live how we like without being told different. 

I am here, I am loud, I am the storm .... I am going to make my stamp on this world I am going to shout it from the roof tops .. and nothing is going to stand in my way I am here to serve you all in this sisterhood I will show you what a woman can be. This is our time to shine bright and always remember this life is our right!! 

Much love and hugs 

Rosegold x

 

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Leonida Odongo
Apr 04
Apr 04

Powerful Rosegold

Thank you for reminding us that we can still soar .

Best

Leonida

Rosegold
Apr 04
Apr 04

thank you hunny x

abderrachid
Apr 04
Apr 04

Peace and love for you,
When I read this story, you reminded me of a poem in Arabic that I had written, translating it: You are not only a body, you are a soul, a heart and a mind, you are a character made of gold ...
We hope all women take the gesture like you .

Rosegold
Apr 04
Apr 04

Thank you .. that is a lovely poem so meaningful.
here and be the storm x

Adriana Leigh G.
Apr 04
Apr 04

Yes Rosegold yes to all this! Dancing from my couch with you. I have been thinking about loving all parts of our bodies - and shouting with you so that all of us on here love every nook and cranny!!
Radical love to you from Montreal,
Adriana

Rosegold
Apr 04
Apr 04

We should always celebrate who we are .. love ever part and not let others tell different or change us.. keep dancing away!
much love
Rosegold

habibane
Apr 06
Apr 06

Wow this is awesome. I love the loud as a storm part. Keep going sis the world is your Oyster.
Habiba

Rosegold
Apr 08
Apr 08

Thank you we can all keep going and let nothing stand in our way.. us women we are the storm !!

Lisa Imbert
Apr 06
Apr 06

It takes a lot of courage to free oneself from a toxic situation, and to finally start believe we are worth of being loved and accepted just the way we are. Thank you for sharing your story

Rosegold
Apr 08
Apr 08

It takes all the l;ast of your strength and much more, dispite all that I have been able to find real love and to trust a man again was a hard choice. I could decide never to let another man into my heart again and be lonely for ever, or to take a chance and open my heart up and take the leap to see what happens. I feel I have made the right choice he his now my rock, my guided wing and he has my heart.
Life can throw so much at you and you don`t understand why we are given a path for a reason.. what happens to us makes us stronger, makes us braver and this why I want to do my campaign for not just me but for women all over the world!
I here to shine the light so we can al shine bright! Us women are strong together.

Angelina Wangira
Apr 08
Apr 08

Hi,
Thank you so much for reminding me that I am worthy of love. I have also been stuck in a pattern of emotionally manipulative relationships and Its when am realizing my worth. Keep going girl

Love,
Angelina

Rosegold
Apr 08
Apr 08

My dear sister you are worthly of all the love .. us women we all are together I am here to help and to show you what we can be capable of. I have had a few long term abusive relationships.. but now I have opened my heart and found a man that loves me for me.. every mark, scar, fault and my past he don`t judge me when I open up on things.
And to have that makes me feel so happy and I can finally settle down and enjoy who I am and what my life is..
Keep beng you dear sister beacuse you will shine through. x
Love
Rosegold. xx

charlenegailtaruwona

Hallo Rosegold.
Thank you for sharing your story and reminding us that we are the best us when we embrace who we are .

Rosegold
Apr 11
Apr 11

Most important of all... always be you and you are sure to shine through.

oben Tati
Apr 10
Apr 10

Thank you Rosegold is our time to shine.

Rosegold
Apr 11
Apr 11

Shine bright and everything will be alright!!
xx

METIEGE OKON NOEL EVE

Wow fabulous. Thanks for sharing Sis Self love is paramount for a positive and healthy growth

Rosegold
Apr 12
Apr 12

it certainly is hunny.. we should love who we are no matter what others think or say..

celia.bass
Apr 12
Apr 12

Thanks for sharing, we need to hear more stories like that in pandemic era.

Rosegold
Apr 12
Apr 12

Its been a tough ride for many of us.. but i am here with my art.. creativity and body confidence.

LSpeaksLife
Apr 12
Apr 12

Thank you for sharing your light, Rosegold! I can see from your words that you know that you were wonderfully made. I know the journey wasn't easy, but I'm sure glad you fought for "her." Wishing you an abundance of love!

All the best,
LaMeisha Wilson

Rosegold
Apr 13
Apr 13

Thank you life is worth fighting for, no matter what happens having those around you helps your strength too.. I am here to show the world what can be done just from a pinch od self love, self confidence and to show who we are as a women. #

Much love
Rosegold.

ARREY- ECHI
Apr 14
Apr 14

Dear Rosegold,
You are indeed a golden rose and beautiful, impactful one. Congratulations for coming this far and for using your journey to inspire and motivate other women. You are unstoppable and yes, our bodies remain our biggest, most confident assets and if someone cannot recognise that, their loss!
I had to actually clap and screem Yaasssss! When I read these lines:

'But you have to find that hidden strength because you have 3 little ones to look after and protect as well as yourself, far to long I have let them win and enough was enough I stood up and brushed myself off and told myself I have to find a better life. '

You are simply amazing and it is good that like a bonus, you finally got a man who isn't afraid of your light but rather lets you SHINE! Keep Shinning dear SISTAR!

Rosegold
Apr 15
Apr 15

Thank you so much hunny..
Its what I love doing i love to help others, we all have a calling in life and this is mine.
Its so nice to finally find someone that loves me for me.. he helps me shine he brings the best out in me i feel like a proper women again.
Life is so important and we should imbrass it with open arms..
much love
Rosegold xx

Rosegold
Apr 15
Apr 15

Hi my name isnt rose gold ... i use that because its my business name my name is charlotte ralph.. i use this name on here for my work.

emarxen
Apr 19
Apr 19

Good for you! this is one of the hardest things to do... And you deserve all good things that come your way.

Rosegold
Apr 22
Apr 22

Thank you... saying all the good things that come my way I have just won an award for my small business and products.. am the author of the year!!

thanks dear for sharing this lovely and inspiring story

Rosegold
Apr 22
Apr 22

most welcome hun and thank you xx

SWagner
Apr 22
Apr 22

Wow, what an amazing story! Good for you for finding the strength to do what was best for you and your children. Setting a positive example of what a physically, mentally and emotionally healthy mom looks like. Glad you weathered your storm and became your own. Be your sunshine and your own biggest fan!

Rosegold
Apr 22
Apr 22

This is wonderful thank you I will and same to you hun. xx

Geo
Apr 28
Apr 28

Hi Rosegold!
Thank you for sharing! I love it! I can feel your energy and passion! Keep on living and loving!!

Rosegold
Apr 29
Apr 29

Most welcome hunny ... always be you it will help the rest shine through. x

Geo
Apr 29
Apr 29

<3

Nari
May 01
May 01

Thank you for sharing your story, it was truly inspiring.

Rosegold
May 02
May 02

Thank you keep shining through..