Mental abusive

Samri Tekle1
Posted May 14, 2020 from Ethiopia

I want to share this with you my sisters I been thinking about this thing .most of us experience being cheating by our boyfriends husbands  left by the person we think they are our world  we sacrifices everything for them we sacrifices our beauty our time our happiness for our marriage and children's but they don't count this transformation is for them and ending on cheating  and also it didn't call abused cause it is not physically but kills you mentally how can we don't count this abusive? It destroy the women inner power ,ability ,worth it destroy her everything for me it is 100% abusive what do you think let share ideas

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Shirin Dalaki
May 14
May 14

Samri,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. In my opinion we always have a choice. Yes...you are right we sacrifice but we also choose who we sacrifice our life for.
We sacrifice for the one who deserves our love and attention, who treats us like a decent human being and who value us as we value ourselves. This world goes around by law of attraction and everything goes back to the self and how we treat ourselves first. My book, "Love is the Answer" is about honoring the self and the value we hold as human beings. Cheating is not acceptable and to allow someone to cheat on us is a form of abuse...but there is a big BUT here. If you let someone abuse you what it means is that... first... you are abusing yourself to let someone else do that to you so we always want to look within and recognize that part of us that has the tendency to be abused and then ask why...why do we do what we do. I tell you one thing though...we have not come to this world to get abused ... we have come to claim our true self and shine and express our womanhood. This life is our learning ground and we learn as we experience and grow.

Shirin

Samri Tekle1
May 18
May 18

Thank you sister for this pricious idea

Chi8629
May 15
May 15

Thank you for sharing.

Samri Tekle1
May 18
May 18

Anytime❤

magg6789
May 15
May 15

Dear Samri,
Thank you for opening up and sharing your thoughts. Do not let others step over you or devalue your morals and core beliefs. I think that even trough difficult situations like this, we can't control what others do but we CAN control how we react to their actions. Meditate within and think of what you can get out of this situation.

Samri Tekle1
May 18
May 18

Ya my sister its not my story but when i saw my poor sisters suffering thing i get so mad especially in marriage thats why thank you for your idea❤

Anita Shrestha
May 18
May 18

Thank you for sharing

Samri Tekle1
May 18
May 18

Anytime sister

Diane DeVillers
May 26
May 26

My heart goes out to you, I too have had that experience and it is very heart hurtful. Men especially when they are young have a hard time saying no to another women, their ego gets all twisted, they think they can just do it once but most of the time the affair continues. Don't women know that by cheating on another women's man, is so hurtful . to the female power? That type of behavior in men, seems to subside when they get over 60 as their testosterone goes down. You can get over an affair with a lot of hard work. WOuld counseling help? the two of you, or is he gone. If he's gone just consider it a good thing for you, try to find another man who would stay happy and be faithful. One woman to another, dump that chump.
To Ethiopia with love.

Samri Tekle1
May 29
May 29

Thankyou my sister for your idea❤