being a ,man is as unique as being a woman. it is not going to happen one day that a man can feel how a woman feels or vive versa. there are bully men out there but i also admit thata there are some other men who are as gentle and soft as wool. unfortunately the stereotype has been elevated beyond measure. all of us men are being made to live with the tag that we oppress women...simply because of some of us who fail to smell the coffee. we cant freely report cases of gender based violence against us because the world system is not favourable. we have to learn to l;ive by our silent cries and groans.