heart break :)

saniya
Posted February 20, 2020 from Pakistan

feeling of being a girl is unique and different....if we love someone we love with all our heart but if someone break our trust we cry in the room alone or in the darkness of night but we don't make feel others that we are not okay or we are having some kind of issues ..no mater what is in our heart if the heart has been broken so many times even then we know how to smile in front of others although the smile is fake but it is the most difficult to smile in pain ..i know because i am this kind of girl:)

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Hello, Saniya,

How brave of you to share this with us. Who broke your heart, dear? It's true that when we are hurt, no one knows so we cry alone. Maybe because society shames us when we show our "negative" emotions. In this world full of hate, injustice, and strife, we cannot smile all the time. Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us, dear. We appreciate you!

saniya
Feb 20
Feb 20

If we surround us from negative people life become pathetic thus people break your heart and because of that we lose faith on a few positive people who exist in this big world... thank you dear for your appreciation

You're welcome,dear. Keep writing please.

Jill Langhus
Feb 21
Feb 21

Hello Saniya,

Sorry to hear about your pain, dear:-( Has your heart been broken recently? What do you do to heal your heart? Do you go out in nature, journal, etc?

Hope you feel better soon, dear!

XX

saniya
Feb 21
Feb 21

Just recently, haven't healed yet the pain is severe killing me little by little ..still crying alone in darkness ..that's all and I wish I could feel better

Jill Langhus
Feb 22
Feb 22

Oh:-( Yes, I hear you. I hope you feel better soon, and that you have ways to comfort yourself, dear.

ANJ ANA
Feb 21
Feb 21

Dear Saniya,
Thank you for sharing. Its so sad about your experience, i know how hard to feel the pain,while someone break the trust. please have faith on yourself. Its fine to cry while you are in pain and its not always necessary to fake a smile while in pain. You may have some time to heal and managing yourself is most important for standing for yourself so that no body can cheat or break your trust again. Be strong my dear sister and do value for yourself. No one and nobody can give you pain without your permission.
love and hugs, anjana

saniya
Feb 24
Feb 24

I can't I can't my inner feels dead my soul is dead I m dying I don't know what to say what to write why it's so hard whyyy

Akshaya9
Feb 21
Feb 21

Hi Saniya,
Thank you for sharing this . Sorry to hear about your experience and i know how's the feeling of broken hearted . Just pray and if you want to cry as much as you want, you cry to relieve your pain.
One day you will be okay, just be strong.

Take care

saniya
Feb 24
Feb 24

When that day will come ??? When I wanna feel better my whole body is numb

Akshaya9
Feb 27
Feb 27

You will not notice one day that you will be alright dear :-) . Just surrender everything to God and be strong, things will be gonna fine.

Take care

Metiege Noel Eve
Feb 22
Feb 22

Hello SANIYA. Your post only go to confirm how strong you are as a woman continue to stay strong sis.

saniya
Feb 24
Feb 24

I wish I could be strong sis

Anita Shrestha
Feb 22
Feb 22

Thank you for sharing

saniya
Feb 24
Feb 24
lizzymark
Feb 22
Feb 22

Hi Saniya, its so courageous of you to shear your story right here. And sure being a girl is awesome we should never trade anything for that. Sorry for all you went through, hope you are fine and its great you are speaking out and raising your voice.

saniya
Feb 24
Feb 24

Sis I wanna be courageous to forget all the pain I have been through my heart is in pain my whole body is in pain I m in pain

Fanka
Feb 23
Feb 23

Hey Saniya,
I can imagine the pain you experience. The world is full of hate, evil, and injustice. I advise that you continue to break the silience once you are hurt. It helps a lot

saniya
Feb 24
Feb 24

Thank you so much sis

Shirin Dalaki
Feb 24
Feb 24

You deserve better. I am so sorry someone broke your heart and I feel you but I want you to know you are bigger than that, you can leap through this and with a little faith and inspiration you can be happy again.
I really love for you to look in the mirror and find love within, the love that wants to come out and express itself and start loving yourself first, this is the first step in attracting the love of your life and I want you to be happy again. I know you are in pain at this moment but please know that this shall pass. We women must lift each other up and support one another because we are so valuable and we can empower one another.

saniya
Feb 24
Feb 24

The pain is breaking me I wanna be like I was before all this I wanna love myself but day by day I m feeling hate for myself ..I hate myself for trusting someone so easily

Shirin Dalaki
Feb 25
Feb 25

I feel you and I have been where you are right now and I get it that we women all we want is to love and be loved and I tell you this...are you ready for it?! it is waiting for you. What you can do for yourself is to love the hate part of you...it is probably in your heart, the part of you that wants to hate you, blame you and pull you down...start loving it because what it is doing is actually protecting you...protecting you of not trusting so easily anymore so please let it be. Connect to that part of you that wants to hate you and start a conversation with it and make friends with it so you stop beating yourself down together you decide on your next move. Remember, we are on this learning journey and can break through anything because we are stronger.

saniya
Feb 25
Feb 25

Thank you so much dear your words gave a hope that I could survive even after this breakdown I wish I could ..

Shirin Dalaki
Feb 26
Feb 26

YES, I am glad you found hope within, it makes me very happy and please keep on staying with hope you feel because you are in much better place now and I know you can breakthrough because "hope" takes you there.