My Father

Charei Kaul
Posted December 12, 2019 from United States

My father died on February, 8, 2008. I was only 2 years old and my little sister was just born on February 7th, 2008. When I found out that it happened I started to cry and I thought that my father was just always at work far away. My mother always had a guy at the house and I thought that he was my father until one day, when my mom and him got into a fight and they broke up, and I told my mother that "Mom I miss my father I want him back." But then I found it out. 

A couple years later I was in school and my school councilor said to me, " You know that there is a father daughter dance in 4 days charei"? I was like I don't have a father though. My father died a long time ago. So no I am not going to be their sorry. 

So when the dance came up I asked my grandpa if he would like to come to the dance with me. He said Yes of course I will. 

That made my life so so much easier. So therefore my grandpa is like my  father figure because I don't have one. 

My grandpa is a very amazing person and he makes my life so so much easier and amazing.

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Akshaya9
Dec 12, 2019
Dec 12, 2019

Hello Charei
I feel you dear. My father died when I'm 21 years old but we never had dance together :-( . They separated when I'm 4 years old and I'm not close with my father maybe because his not with us anymore in the same roof. It is also my dream to dance with my father but it's always just a dream forever.
Thank you dear for sharing your story. Hope you doing fine :-)

Best Regards

Charei Kaul
Dec 12, 2019
Dec 12, 2019

Thank you Akshaya . I am sorry about your father also. I am going to be okay.

Akshaya9
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Your welcome dear :-)

Dawn Arteaga
Dec 12, 2019
Dec 12, 2019

Welcome to World Pulse Charei! Thank you for sharing this tender story. I’m grateful your grandfather was there for you and helped you feel that support. Here you are safe to share any story in your heart. We are with you!

Charei Kaul
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Thank You Dawn. I am grateful for him to.

Zohra Elias
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hello Charei,

Welcome to worldpulse and thank you for sharing your first story with us,

I’m sorry for your lost , but I’m glad that your grandfather was there for your dance.
we hear you !

Please keep us updated.

Charei Kaul
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Thank You Zohra. I will keep you updated.

Zohra Elias
Dec 14, 2019
Dec 14, 2019

You are so welcome.
Great ! Thank you.

Felicitas Wung
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hi.
You are welcome to world pulse. Keep updating us.

Charei Kaul
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Alright, thank you Felicitas.

Lisbeth
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hi Charei,
A warm welcome to world pulse and a big congrats on your first post here.

You made me remember Cinderella story ha. At least there was a substitute for you.
How are you doing? My best regards and happy weekend.
Warm regards
Lizzy

Charei Kaul
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

I love the Cinderella story to! I am doing amazing I am going home today so that is very happy for me. Happy weekend to you to Lisbeth.

Lisbeth
Dec 14, 2019
Dec 14, 2019

Haha :-).
You enjoy your weekend.
Thanks

Jill Langhus
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hello Charei,

Welcome to World Pulse, dear. How are you doing? I'm sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your first story. I'm looking forward to hearing more about your story, hopes, fears, plans and goals.

Hope you have a great weekend!

XX

Charei Kaul
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

I am doing amazing, how about you? It is okay it was a long time ago, but still remember it though. I am very excited to share more stories with you guys also. Thank You Jill.

Jill Langhus
Dec 14, 2019
Dec 14, 2019

Great to hear! Yes, thanks:-)

Yes, I can imagine.

Great to hear!

You're welcome.

Hope you're having a great weekend!

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

Hello, Charie,

Welcome to World Pulse! It's a joy that another voice from the US is rising up.

I'm so sorry you lost your father at a very young age. I can feel the longing you have for him. Life is sometimes unfair, isn't? I commend you because you chose to see the brighter side and that is you recognized that your grandfather took that father's role. I'm glad he is in your life. On my case, I lost both my grandfathers at a very young age so I didn't have that bonding with them like you have with your grandpa. Hugs, dear.

Please continue to write your stories. I look forward to getting to know more of you. Welcome again to our growing sisterhood!

Charei Kaul
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

I do have a lot of upset days in my life because of it but I think about how good I am doing and how far in life that I am succeeded. Life can be unfair. I am also glad that he is in my life also. I am sorry about your grandfathers passing away. Women need to be stronger and this is where I am going to grow stronger in life. Hugs back to you Karen. I am glad to be a part of the sisterhood!!!

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

I understand, dear. How tough it must be for you. You are such a strong woman to overcome those down times. Thanks for your empathy, dear. I appreciate you. We are happy you are here! Please keep on writing! Have a great weekend. :)