WHATS IN FOR YOU AFTER A BROKEN MARRIAGE?

Thelma obani 2020
Posted July 4, 2021 from Nigeria

We hear of sooo many sad stories of broken marriages everyday. As an intern in my local secteriate,  we share and handle child welfare cases and issues. 

Women should get busy and learn a skill.

Encourage women all over the world to either acquire education or learn a self help skill. Most times even if a man contributes,  it is never enough. 

LEARN A SKILL 

Learn a skill.

 

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Jill Langhus
Jul 05
Jul 05

Hello Thelma, Dear,

How are you doing? Yes. It's true. Oh, dear. I would imagine that's quite overwhelming. I hope you have a self care practice for yourself so that you're able to handle it all, emotionally, I mean?

What self help skills are you referring to, dear? Can you clarify?

Hope you're having a good Monday!

Thelma obani 2020
Jul 05
Jul 05

Life skills that one should have so you wouldn't depend on anyone .
One can also earn a living by rendering self help services like laundry, cleaning, etc

Jill Langhus
Jul 07
Jul 07

Oh, I see. Yes. That makes sense. Thanks for clarifying.

megsmueller
Jul 06
Jul 06

Hello to you sister Thelma and thank you for your opinion. It is so true - while being academically equipped is very necessary, it does not always mean that we follow our hearts/dreams. There is always something satisfying about being able to do something with skilled hands - creating, decorating etc. and the list continues. It's altogether a different type of contribution and a very good one. Aside from the fact that it serves as a self-sustaining effort, it also helps the mind, it's a coping mechanism. Therapeutic! Thank you for your inspiration.

Thelma obani 2020
Jul 06
Jul 06

Very well said dear.
Trust you are fine too❓

Olutosin
Jul 06
Jul 06

Thank you very much I will continue to tell women.

Thelma obani 2020
Jul 07
Jul 07

Yes dear. How are you

Nini Mappo
Jul 06
Jul 06

Hello Thelma,
'Learn a skill' I hear you sister. The time of a womand saying that a husaband will look after her are long gone. Men are becoming more and more irresponsible, confused by the weight and allures of modernity they are not equipped to navigate. A skill is a step on the ladder to empowerment and freedom. Thank you for sharing. Keep sparkly :)

Thelma obani 2020
Jul 07
Jul 07

Thank you

megsmueller
Jul 09
Jul 09

Sister Nini, now you're talking!!!! Love it!