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Ukhengching Marma
Posted September 27, 2015 from Bangladesh

I have preserved some dreams in my mind , dreams for my self, dreams for my family, dreams for my people. I dream to be educated, to do my graduate schools in a developed country with fullfree scholarship, i dream to fly in freedom , want to free the stress i posses and want to aceive the inner peace for rest of my life. I have dreams for my family that i want to take away them from the conflict affected place where i live and provide them a peaceful life where they dont need to be apprehensive for their livelihood. I have dream for my community that one day there will be developement in the hills and they will get in touch with outside world and could observe how much the world have progressed.I consider I got some skills to be connected with people, to initiate a project which can help others and adapt in any situation and make any fragile things better.I try to learn from every person , every activities in everyday to day life.I am sort of introvert person and rarely share my pains and sorrows with others. In my life i have gone though some sort of events which have taught me to rethink about my life and go beyond my campacities.And i have tried to engage with different organizations to help people because it gives me the space to interact with people, to see other's smiles and it let me to engage with some sort of activities where i can forget the personal stress and problems.I am much passinate about community deveopement , in my consideration global connectivity will provide me the skills to be proactive so that i could learn more skills regarding developement, women empowerment issues.My long distance relationship has been playing a great role for my day to day stress where i am feeling as a bird without wings and living in a cage. I want to be free from mental salvation to work with joy and without stress. I am a bit emotional person and trust people very fast that later i have to pay for this issue.My family has been very supportive to me every time and they always try to pull me up from every problems. Every individual woman should be free from mental salvation because our souls are the source of our power, our happiness .

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Sep 27, 2015
Sep 27, 2015

Dear Ukheng,

There is a saying that whatever you dream you can achieve,that is the power of dreams,its ok if we dream of what we like to become , but more important is our focus,you must be focus on your derams to be able to achieve it.

Stress is not good for the body,mind you, we all go through it,but dont let it linger for long,because it damage our body spirit and soul,come out of it fast.Enagage in activities that will take your mind off any sressful activity.

Thank God you have a community (worldpulse) where you .can share everthing, we are here to share our life with you as well.

And i believe, here you wil find the resources you need to make your dream come true

Dream on girl,because it will be a reality..

Much love


Sep 28, 2015
Sep 28, 2015

Dear Ukheng,

I am sad to read that your family lives in a conflict affected area. This is definitely not a place for children. I wish you find a way to get to a safe place. But even more, I wish there will be a lasting solution so conflicts can stop and you enjoy your area.

I commend your dream for more education. Acquiring more skills and knowledge will prepare you better for the service you offer and contribute to quality, which is an important factor when you are in development work.

You are “an introvert who engages with different organizations to help people because it gives the space to interact with people”,  I say “waouhhhh”.  It might not be easy, but it is great. Being with others is great. It reminds me of this proverb from my village “Alone we go fast, together we go far! “.

By the way, how does mental salvation manifest in your context?

Thanks for sharing, press on,

All the best!

Tosin Victoria APIRIOLA
Sep 30, 2015
Sep 30, 2015

Dear Ukheng,

Dream on Girl.., dreams come true. Do not relent in being who you wish to be and do you mean mental starvation of women?

Together in strength,


Oct 08, 2015
Oct 08, 2015

Dear Ukheng,

You just articulated what all of us need in life. A stress-free space to do what we like, peace of mind to be creative and enjoy the simple things in life. What more do we need right? :-) I am so sorry to hear about the area of conflict where you and your folks reside.

We can look forward to a future of young individuals who are full of kindness to one another. It's not impossible with amazing individuals like you and the scores of empowered women out there.

Also, on a side note, have you tried either deep breathing or Yoga? Will help you greatly with stress if practised regularly.

I wish you the best!


Hannah B
Oct 08, 2015
Oct 08, 2015

Dear Ukheng,

Thank you for sharing your interests and ideas with us!  It sounds like you feel that you are in a difficult situation, but you have a passion for helping people and making change in your community.  I am glad that you have a supportive family, and I hope that here in World Pulse and in your university you will find good friends who can support and encourage your work.

Keep following your passion and finding creative ways to help others and further yourself!

I wish you all the best,