You have to think high about your calibre first before you can expect the world to recognize your ability to do things well or differently. It never happens that people are the ones who inform you what you do best rather its got to be you who demonstrates your leadership and skill. Today you may be in a position where no one acknowledges your contribution and worth, or in a humbling economic situation but it takes just a moment for life to change. We are often living in a belief that there are experts higher than us in every instance and we are afraid to take the leap or slip in the shoes of authority and it happens to me too often but one day, when I was awaiting expert opinion I released people around me were waiting for my opinion and I was the expert! That moment, realization and self awareness changed me forever. Till the time/day you are the expert in your eyes, success will elude you. Success means different things to different people but I can say one thing with surety, that unless you want to be successful and work towards it daily, its not coming your way. To have something, be it success, peace, spiritual awakening, work from your end is indispensable. If you want it, you will seek it and God once said that seeking is the most important prerequisite to acquiring what you seek. A struggling person is much more successful than one who has no dream and goals, a person who seeks evolution in mind, heart and spirit is much more successful than a closed heart who have given up on improvement. The day you stop limiting the extent you can go to out of your own fears of failing, that is the day you will discover your limit (lessness). Hope you will have a fantastic year- end celebration and a beautiful new year.
Hello, dear sister Urmila,
Thank you for thinking about the World Pulse sisterhood as 2020 ends. Those are valuable wisdom coming from a woman who achieved success in life. You definitely are an expert in your field now! I am so proud of you. Thank you for this lovely reminder.
May your 2021 be filled with love, joy, peace, grace, and abundance, our unstoppable sister!
Precious Karen,
I wish you great joy, health and protection and peace for you and your family in the coming year and I pray you will guide and nourish sisters from all over the world just like you have been doing. We are blessed to have you to value and love us.
Hugs and kisses,
Urmila Chanam,
India
Dear sister Urmila,
Thanks you for sharing to us those words of wisdom and encouragement in sisterhood. May your 2021 be a colourful year of successes.
Eseza Mukyala..........Lots of love!
Dearest sister Eseza Mukyala,
What a joy to read your note and thank you so much for the warm wishes. I wish you a self motivating and beautiful year ahead beyond 'limits'.
Love and hugs,
Urmila Chanam,
India
Dear Urmila,
Thank you for such an encouraging message especially as we look into the new year with a lot of hope and dreams. May we remember our expertise, the opportunities it can create, and why it should be valued. All the best for 2021!
Dearest Nini Mappo,
Our biggest resource and hope is 'us' before anybody and aything else. A happy new year to you and your loved ones.
Love and prayers,
Urmila Chanam
Hi Urmila,
Happy New Year of 2021 to you. Thank you for this note of encouragement. I am glad that I am still alive and healthy, atleast I was able to read it. We will be strong together this 2021.
Dearest Maenn,
We are seeing history unfold and one of the most devastating times for mankind. I too count my blessings for surviving so far. Wish youthe same sister <3
Much love,
Urmila Chanam,
India
Yes, Urmila, you can't dream big enough
Sister Beth,
Girls in India are brought up feeling inferior and incapable. Sons of the house are trained on all aspects. From that cultural context, I wrote this advice to girls who grew up into women feeling unsure at important phases in their life. The unprecedented times we live in during Covid-19 have imposed unique challenges.
Much love and prayers,
Urmila Chanam