Victim Victimization

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Posted December 7, 2019 from Cameroon
I stand with HER
Together let's Orange the World by not Victimizing or Stigmatizing Survivors of Sexual Assault

We live in a society, where victims of SEXUAL ASSAULT are VICTIMIZED.

Where sexually assaulted persons are STIGMATIZED.

Where victims are BLAMED

and live in SHAME.

Yet the PERPETRATORS go about their normal lives like nothing ever happened.

Did the victims ask for it?……No!

No one ever ASK to be sexually assaulted. It is NEVER the victims fault.

Its about time we spoke about this GRUESOME CRIME in our society.

If you are a victim, NEVER KEEP QUIET because you PROTECT THE CRIMINAL and IMPRISON YOURSELF.

Everytime you SILENCE a victim, you and your loved ones are closer to being sexually assaulted……..

Together let’s break the silence because it is the only way to stoping this CRIME!

 

#IStandWithHer

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Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 08, 2019
Dec 08, 2019

Hello, Wesilane,

Your observation is right. It is truly appalling that victims are unheard, while perpetrators go free. We stand with you. Thank you for speaking up!

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 08, 2019
Dec 08, 2019

Thank you Karen

Karen Quiñones-Axalan
Dec 10, 2019
Dec 10, 2019

You're welcome, dear.

Jill Langhus
Dec 09, 2019
Dec 09, 2019

Hi Welisane,

How are you doing, dear? I totally agree with you 100%. Thanks for sharing your powerful post.

I hope you're doing well and having a good Monday.

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

Thanks Jill

Jill Langhus
Dec 18, 2019
Dec 18, 2019

You're welcome!

lizzymark
Dec 09, 2019
Dec 09, 2019

True sis, #Istandwith you on this.we must never be silent about abuses and violence.

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

Thanks Lizzy

Anita Shrestha
Dec 10, 2019
Dec 10, 2019

THank you for sharing dear

Wusufor
Dec 10, 2019
Dec 10, 2019

Hi Wesilane,
You just hit it on the Head. Perpetrators are let loose and victims are rather condemned. What a strange and loose law we got. Thanks for highlighting this and standing with her.
I also stand with her.
Regards

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

Thanks Lis

Asaad Ali
Dec 10, 2019
Dec 10, 2019

Victims of violence they were Innocent ، this the right way to treat with and support them.
Communities must defending violence agnist women at all .
Thank you for sharing.

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

Thanks Ali

Asaad Ali
Dec 19, 2019
Dec 19, 2019

Welcom sister

otahelp
Dec 13, 2019
Dec 13, 2019

#IStandWithHer. thank you Welsane. i agree with you. #BreakTheSilence #AwaywithPerverts thank you for sharing

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

Thanks Otahelp

Sister Zeph
Dec 15, 2019
Dec 15, 2019

This is a sad reality, even in Pakistan in most cases women and girls do not report the cases of sexual violence against them therefor it is not easy to control this

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

True Sister

Kadi_lokule
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

Sad truth is our society turns a blind eye to these attrocities. Thank for sharing dear.

WELISANE MOKWE NKENG
Dec 17, 2019
Dec 17, 2019

Thanks Kadi

Andra Marasteanu
Dec 23, 2019
Dec 23, 2019

This is a gruesome reality even in more developed countries, the mindset is the same, the rape culture is prevalent everywhere due to the patriarchal system and the silencing of women for centuries. However, we have found our voices again and we are unstoppable. The change starts with us so that our daughters will not have to live this reality anymore. Be blessed!

Endale Edith
Jan 14
Jan 14

Thank you Welisane for raising your voice in your space against sexual violence. This is one area in my life I have a huge burden for and will never stop working to end the stigma and silence surrounding sexual violence. I add my voice to yours.