LIFE PARTNERS

Bhatkii Aurat
Posted March 17, 2018 from Pakistan

hi 

real life start when you choose the person for your LIFE and we said LIFE PARTNER. what is mean by that LIFE PARTNER , the person who wil your better half, the person who will share your life ,happy and sad moments, cheers joy,sad mood laugh, your bed your towel,washroom room everything you have he or she share with you. 

is there any partner like that who share with you her /his soul. when we started this relationship everything going good we love each other,share every moment but suddenly when time goes longer, we will realize what we have done this is not the right person we choose for our life. 

why this happened because we dont think that our life partner is also human being , he/she have also a heart and mind. partner have also chance to live there life in her own way. but n our society majority this access have MAN . if Muslim women dont like her husband after marriage so she dont have right to easily step forward from him. she will face many problems to leave him, family stress , family respect, brother sister your relatives dont allow you to leave him, because it will goes wrong for family respect and dignity. 

i have seen so many girls who is suffering and living the life which she dont like to live . just for family respect they are going to compromise with there life. why the parents , relatives family allow to girls to live there life.. WHY always they will ask to follow the rules of family.

WHY always women faced this all situations ?????

IF the women stand for herself why always people ask her wrong, she is not good, she is bad girl.. WHY 

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jlanghus
Mar 17, 2018
Mar 17, 2018

Hi Aaisha. Welcome to World Pulse:-) Thanks for sharing your story about life partners. It's true that there seems to be disparate standards for women to be able to leave their partners, in comparison to men; especially Muslim women. I hope that more and more Muslim women start to speak up and stand up for their rights; for what isn't right and has never been right just because it's tradition. I'm sure it's in no way easy to change some of these paradigms, but in the long run I think it's worth it. Women have just as much right to be free as men. Looking forward to more posts from you.

Bhatkii Aurat
Mar 18, 2018
Mar 18, 2018

Thank you so much for your response dear. I wish all Women speak up about this issue many girls are facing these problems.

jlanghus
Mar 18, 2018
Mar 18, 2018

You're welcome. Me, too! Hopefully someday all women and girls will feel like it's an easy thing to speak up, whenever they want about whatever they want:-)

Obisakin Busayo
Mar 17, 2018
Mar 17, 2018

Hi Aaisha,
Thank you for the courage to share your story with us! Every girl or woman has the right to create the life they want for themselves. They don't have to live their lives to please anybody. if more women and girls speak up on these issues more and more, the world will listen and freedom come to live their lives the way they want it. Looking forward to hear more from you as you become the voice of the voiceless in your community
Love
Busayo

Bhatkii Aurat
Mar 18, 2018
Mar 18, 2018

Thanks Alot dear. I wish if all women speak and support this important topic more problems will solve soon

Clodine Mbuli Shei
Mar 19, 2018
Mar 19, 2018

Hello Aaisha,
Thats such a sensitive and painful subject. Many women have lost their pride, voice and womanhood because they fear to make decisions that will liberate them. True, its very evident in moslem communities. We can't relent our efforts, we hope for a tomorrow where women even in moslem communities will speak out and stand up for their rights. Thank you for this

Corine Milano
Mar 19, 2018
Mar 19, 2018

Thank you for sharing this important post on an important topic. Why is a good question! Please keep questioning and keep posting your stories here. We are happy to have you on World Pulse!

Bhatkii Aurat
Mar 20, 2018
Mar 20, 2018

thanks alot for your appreciation i hope we share this post and made a awarness of important issue to all Families, who will not support girl becoz of there dignity and respect. i am not here to win any trophy, i just share this thoughts becoz many girls facing these problems. she will not fight for herself becoz of family pressures.