Move it on - Today is reality; Tomorrow is the future and Yesterday is the past!

Time is flying; life is a never stopped pulse, on and on...!
Shall we say: Today is reality; tomorrow is the future and yesterday is the past..?!
The above is actually not a new phrase and becoming principle of many persons, including us as spouse, husband and wife, parents and social actors. So why this is mentioned?

Lately, one group of spouse relationship services has put advertisement to request one memorial time of the husband and wife, about the past romantic memory within their sweetness, holy vow, happiness, and to praise it in order to move on as a happy family. They say couple is busy day by day, then may forget about romantic moments, so it may loose the bonding between the two. Aren't we..?
It is very good to praise the Lord for He has given us; since that is true in living principle. However to move on for living we need tools towards our changes to be better and better as God always wanted; which accordingly should be more than the past. People might say: Yesterday was sweet, but today is bitter, and we may not know tomorrow we still live or not..; it's a mystery! The past is not a guarantee for better tomorrow; but today is a reality - we must work on it for tomorrow!
The truth is Life is a long live lesson learnt! We are 'growing' and changing over the time; the older situations must be less than today; otherwise we are in trouble.

In the Bible, Paul said to Philippians to leave the past and move on... (Phil 3:13). Human is processed day by day to renew the spirit, the character, the life as opportunity given by God. There is no destiny, as we believe; because we have Hope based on Faith and Love to God. Nothing is impossible in God! However \"Ora et Labora\" means for praying and working!

For many years, many decades, even many centuries women live mostly in following the men; while actually in many religions we could find that one woman is created as the partner to a man. In the holy book it is said as \"helper that are suitable\", it means for gender equality, true partnership in helping each other to fulfill this life as given by God.
Unfortunately, power, resources and self egoism have trapped human into in-humanity to other human, including partner in life; wife or husband. The egalitarian ethos is still becoming a dream for most people; they don\"t know how to get it..
If the basic of living based on Love as the beginning process started by God; then men and women are created in Love as it meant to be. Most marriages are started from Love, it could be started due to transactions and or accidents though. Why then the Love is diminishing over the time and frequently turned into 'ordinary' even to the other way around..?
We never wanted the bad things happened; however many families are broken up in the middle way; while happiness is flying away without saying goodbye..?!

We have good news!
Based on Gender Harmony (GH) research during 2003-2006; 2006-2008; 2008-2010; the missing link is 'respect' to each other that needs to be communicated all of the time. Patriarchy culture unfortunately has set most human mindset for men as number one, superior and leader for women and children. This accordingly may set to stratification, marginalization, supra-ordination, discrimination and so on between men and women. In Human rights principle we have to respect, protect and fulfill the rights of human; most important to our partner life and family, not merely to ourselves.
One of listeners from the GH Radio programme asked what to do if the husband mostly performed as 'quiet' person or shy. However, he could suddenly turned up to be \"a fire\", if something was wrong. The other woman told a story that due to tight work at office, she once came home very late at night; and she found out the husband locked the door of their house, he did not want to open it for her.
What to do for harmonious living..?

GH is proved to be the promising tool due to it teach us about respect to other human being (although he/she made mistake); try doing communication for unity. To err is human, to forgive is divine. Live within the respect to human rights. Everybody needs to be respected; to be developed, to choose own preference and get the freedom to be themselves! When we see disable person; put respect - they never wanted to be like that! Sometimes people choose 'wrong ways' even for their living, depend on knowledge and experiences or conscience! We learn from the mistakes but not living on it; we have to change it! There are ways to improve each other! Its process is called for 'coping mechanism' and transformation based on family career development system. There is a Beautifully imperfect! We need to leave the past; work for today, prepare for tomorrow and dream for our success and happiness!

If your husband is 'oil' you may not set 'fire' on it; the best way is become \"mud' or 'wood'; which may create synergy between husband and wife to move on... If the wife is \"paper', you may not give \"wind\" on it; it is better cover it with 'wood' then both of you may go together hand in hand. Nobody is perfect; that's why we need each other; as human need God all of the time...We are growing up together as husband and wife, as partners, as community, as nation to approach a better future! We shall face the problem even stress together and change it into Hope, better health, better social and better world together! We may not do it all; however together we may do something! Talk and communicate; share and build for harmonious living!
Gender Empowerment is needed to achieve gender equality; the Gender Harmony is promising tools that you may try and prove as told by many testimonies from many parts of the world.

GH provides training for public; facilitator on the training of trainers; seminar; free consultation directly through website and so on... It is proved that domestic violence cases reduced by 56%. If you are fighting everyday, by learning about GH, you may have alternate day fighting, then every four days, then every week, turned to be every month, only once every year and so on, eventually you may learn living together in harmony! What a happiness... Smile...!

Please note for new book of GH: Gender Empowerment - it shall be published and launched by the end of this year only!
No rights No Harmony; No Harmony No Peace; and No Peace No Happiness!

Yesterday was lesson learnt; Work for Today and Live better for Tomorrow! Lets's move it on..!
Get whatever it may help to reach your success and happiness.. Keep the Love, Faith and Hopes!
Harmony greetings!
God bless...