Les filles intellectuelles du Sud-Kivu sont moins nombreuses que les garçons. Ces filles sont moins considérées que les garçons intellectuelles. Ces derniers sont plus considérés car ils sont jugés plus comptants et efficaces que nous les filles. Un autre constat est que les filles intellectuelles ne se marient pas facilement. Les causes sont multiples entre autre : - Les hommes les considèrent comme des gens incapables d’être responsables de leurs familles. -D’autres disent que les filles intellectuelles négligent souvent leurs maris. -D’autres encore disent que ce sont elles qui prennent la décision à la place de l’homme dans le foyer. -Les autres les considèrent comme des prostituées car elles connaissent beaucoup concernant les théories sexuelles. -Elles sont aussi considérées comme des femmes inefficaces dans les travaux ménagers. Elles souhaitent souvent avoir des domestiques que quelques hommes passent comme esclaves sexuels à l’absence de leur propre femme. Nous remarquons que 80% des filles instruites ne travailler pas, et ne sont pas non plus mariées. Ceci est fait que beaucoup de filles sont dessus de leur vie future.

English translation by community member Pyrias

THE DIFFICULTIES MET BY INTELLECTUAL WOMEN IN SOUTH KIVU

There are far fewer intellectual women in South Kivu than there are intellectual men. These women are less respected than educated men. Those men are more respected because they are judged to be more skilled and effective than us women.

Some say that it is not easy for intellectual women to get married. The causes are many, but among them are:

  • Men consider them incapable of being responsible for their families.
  • Others say that educated women often neglect their husbands.
  • Still others say that they take the place of the man as the decision maker of the home.
  • Some consider them prostitutes, because they know a lot concerning sexual theories.

-They are also considered ineffective at housework. They often want to have domestics, which some men treat like sex slaves in the absence of their own wife.

We notice that 80% of educated women don’t work, nor are they married. It is a reality that many women are living lives at a lower position than they deserve.

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THE DIFFICULTIES MET BY INTELLECTUAL WOMEN IN SOUTH KIVU

There are far fewer intellectual women in South Kivu than there are intellectual men. These women are less respected than educated men. Those men are more respected because they are judged to be more skilled and effective than us women.

Some say that it is not easy for intellectual women to get married. The causes are many, but among them are:

  • Men consider them incapable of being responsible for their families.
  • Others say that educated women often neglect their husbands.
  • Still others say that they take the place of the man as the decision maker of the home.
  • Some consider them prostitutes, because they know a lot concerning sexual theories.

-They are also considered ineffective at housework. They often want to have domestics, which some men treat like sex slaves in the absence of their own wife.

We notice that 80% of educated women don’t work, nor are they married. It is a reality that many women are living lives at a lower position than they deserve.

C'est bizarre que ces hommes considerent les fille eduquees MOINS efficaces et capables au lieu de PLUS efficace, ce n'est pas logique du tout. Il me semble que ce n'est qu'une competition, et ces hommes-la ne veulent pas qu'il y ait les filles qui ne veulent etre que les femmes a foyer. Moi, je crois que les filles intellectuelles sont aussi importants que les garcons, parce qu'elles sont une motie de la population! Si on n'a que les garcons intellectuels, le pays est plus faible. Selon vous, pourquoi est-ce-que ces hommes-la croient tout ca?